You know, the kind that feels that every little sugestion you make, or when you want your opinion to be valid too, get all defensive and acuse you of trying to control them...and even worse, if they feel with every right to tell you what's right and what not for you. If you did, how do you cope? is there hope for the relationship?
2006-09-14 11:40:07 · 8 answers · asked by jade 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
to Carlos: that's great for you..thing is, i have told him he's paranoid and made a lot of examples about how he does make all of his decisions, that i'm only telling him some things that hurt my feelings, but he says he's like that and that i'm trying to change him. When all i want is a little more consideration, being his girlfriend and all...
2006-09-14 11:58:00 · update #1
You cope by leaving this person and letting them deal with their problem. There's little chance that anything will ever change if you stay with them.
2006-09-14 11:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by bitchenbrod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing is, if a person is trying to control you, then there is a serious problem in the making that can lead into massive problems later on, including verbal, mental and physical abuse. If you are thinking they are always right, you wouldnt be questioning if they were control freaks....that little voice inside you or those little alarm bells...that dread feeling...all signs of that there is a problem....GET HELP!
2006-09-14 18:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by shortandcutetoboot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever told him that he has those types of issues? Its not nice just to dump someone after reading a couple of sentences I used to be controling my best friend(girlfriend) introduced me to anger management classes and she showed me allot of areas I needed to work on also! So dont submit but try to help and give yourself a timeline and a plan and if through a couple of months he doesnt change well its time to leave that person. People can change because I know I did: ) so good luck...
2006-09-14 18:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship like this. Notice the past tense. I left him. There is no way to cope with this behavior. It just gets worse, and creates more stress for you as time goes on.
2006-09-14 18:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't feel there is hope with out therapy. This is someone who is very insecure.You can not change him the situation will not get better.
2006-09-14 18:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Lesa Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every day, my man think he know every thing but i like makeing take a look at his self. and proveing to him iam right. most men think there right alllllllllllll the time
2006-09-14 18:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out of the relationship NOW!!! Don't let him control you. People do that because of their insecurites and it can turn dangerous. Just get out!!!
2006-09-14 20:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Linda L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW!! Don't look back, no second chances. It only gets worse. Don't tell him where you are.
2006-09-14 18:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋