Ok well i am 6 months pregnant and lately my bfs friends have been inviting him out and he wont ask me if he can go he just goes. I didnt think it was fair cuz i have to stay home and wait until he calls me. Also we fight because he hides his best friend from me, he hides that he talks to her and well i hate it because they used to like each other and he says he loves me. I had to give up my friends for him but he wont. What do i do? Or what can i tell him? Please i need to know if you think that i am trying to control him? Or do i have a say in this too?
2006-09-14 11:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds more like he is trying to control you. He is setting a pattern that establishes that you must stay at home and take care of things while he enjoys his life and does what ever he wants. Not only is it unfair, it shows he has no respect for you or his relationship with you. A real man who cares about you and loves you would be there with you every moment possible. If he was invited out he would ask you to go with him and if you couldn't he would offer to stay home. You need to take a stand and realize this guy isn't in love with you the way you are with him.
2006-09-14 11:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you have a say so but he is not being the caring type anymore. he is up to no good and you will be the loser. it happens most times when a guy is felt trapped because of the pregnancy. he has changed a lot and you best be ready for a great fall . he is out and you are staying in with no friends . not fair to you and is not fair to your relation ship. never would i have given up my friends for any guy. he is very selfish and controlling so you are the loser again. just because you are pregnant by him doesn't mean you have to stay with him and i feel he will not be with you when the baby is born or with you at any time after. but you decide . hiding things from you is not good to start but hiding a best friend from you . is not good. and you are supposed to be his best friend. soul mate .
2006-09-14 18:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. First i am sorry....he's being a BIG jerk.
second, WATCH OUT, I am a guy, he sounds like he is cheating on you ! He would not be hiding the fact that he is hanging out with his pal ( " the ex girl flame " ) if something was not happening & further more. your 6 months pregnant, is this chic more important that the woman, he supposedly loves. You need a man that will be beside you during your pregnancy, not a bar fly that hangs with other women....... DONT MARRY HIM, you will be infor a life of doubt, and suspition.......
P.S. This is coming from a guy.......be very warry of him & her.
Good luck to you, you deserve better.
2006-09-14 18:47:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. Pregnancy really brings out what they're made of. I would have real issue with him having a female "best" friend. Something tells me you've accepted your share of B.S. from this guy. What if his "best friend" ends up pregnant at the same time.? This guy is playing everybody. I'm not just making up scenarios. I'm telling you from experience. He has much to hide.
2006-09-14 18:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not trying to control him. It's reversed. He likes you worrying. You need to get away from him. You will raise your child better alone, than in this relationship.
2006-09-14 18:42:51 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋