I know someone who's mother probably fed him by catapult but who has the kindest, funniest and most beautiful personality.. still couldn't go out with him tho...I know...I know...fickle!!
2006-09-14 11:10:32 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Personality,hands down.
2006-09-14 11:11:56 · answer #1 · answered by aries4272 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks attract you to someone but the personality is what makes you stick around for more than a few seconds, i have dated some of the most beautiful ppl yet couldn't stay with them cause i couldn't hardly stand there personality and the opposite is true as well i have dated some REAL uggo's because i loved being around them but then again i didn't stay with them either....so an equal mix is good but really personality is the most important looks will fade with time when your 80 personality will get you by we will all be ugly someday there aren't very many 50+ year old super models but there are plenty of 50+ year old happily married couples. lol so that turned into a long one the short answer is both with a lean toward personality :P
2006-09-14 11:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by J. H. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personality.
2006-09-14 11:12:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know that its the personality that really counts but everyone always sees the person on the outside rather than the person on the inside. You feel attracted to the looks of a person. If someone is big and ugly, you dont even get to know them.
However, i got chatting to a guy from work, he's attractive to me but i did hold back for a while cos of his size. We both flirted with each other and when he asked me out, i jumped at the chance!! He's turned out to be the best bloke in the world. Good thing is, i got to know him as a person first and now i'm with him, i like him even more! We've been together for 3 months and can honestly say, i'm in love with him!
Part of me was worried what other people would think when they saw him but that's there problem not mine. i'm happy with him and thats all that matters.
You can have a drop dead gorgeous, fit guy who's just full of himself and is a complete and utter b***ard! Then you have Mr. Average who has a heart of gold and would worship the ground you walk on!
Therefore, in answer to your question, PERSONALITY, any day!!!
2006-09-14 11:17:53 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should only date guys who you sincerely like for their personality. However, I know what you mean - sometimes guys are attracted to me and I love their personalities but I just can't get over their looks/hygiene, etc.
Sometimes however, your first impression may be that they are unattractive, but as you get to know them better, their wonderful personality makes them look better too. I would say that you should get to know this person better - maybe they won't seem unattractive afterall.
Another suggestion: if you aren't worried about a ruined friendship or things becoming awkward, why not go out with him on a first date? That way you can get to know him, see him dressed up for a date, etc. Maybe that way you can see if you can live with his looks. If not, there isn't a whole lot of harm done.
2006-09-14 11:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personallity id rather be with a ugly person that was funny, smart, caring and looked after me then get a good looking guy and he be mean and back stabbing like most the men iv had, then again some the girls were a right beep! but men or woman who just wanna get laid are sickos thats discusting
2006-09-14 12:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by bleeding_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person's personality traits determine who they are. Does it matter what they LOOK like? Under the skin, whatever race or creed we are, we are people. What makes us really different, what sets us apart, what attracts us to others - is our personality. Personality is the basis of human chemistry - it is either there or it isn't. Personality is what instinctively draws us to someone else - I say go with your instincts. Someone's looks are only superficial after all - and who knows that those looks are real, and not the result of plastic surgery!
2006-09-14 11:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoyed the, "...probably fed him by catapult", harsh but funny.
You have to decide how vain you are - can his personality overcome your objections to his physical appearance. Don't feel too bad, people make that decision everyday. Youth usually goes for looks, age not so much.
2006-09-14 11:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by jack w 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if you met a really great looking guy & fell in love with him, then he had a tragic accident which completely ruined his looks, would you drop him like a hot brick? I'm not being ratty with you, I seriously am interested to know.
Looks don't stay with you for life, your personality is yours for keeps. Give the guy a chance or you might regret it later in life when you are stuck with an arrogant, self centered stud muffin.
2006-09-14 21:57:21 · answer #9 · answered by stumpymosha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personality is very important to me but of course they have 2 have somthing about them that makes u think they r sexy. my fella aint much 2 look at but he has a great body and a funny personality so in whole i reckon they've both got 2 be there.
there is no point going out with a fit guy if he has the personality of a dish cloth or he loves his reflection more than u
2006-09-14 11:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by rebecca g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋