When i see two girls in a porn scene or a magazine i get so turned on i feel some kind of throbbing down there and i get wet, why does this happen?? Does this mean i am a lesbian?? My husband gives me great sex there are no complaints about that, but i cannot help to get horny when i see two females.
2006-09-14 10:41:10 · 8 answers · asked by Juliet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think it's just the noises and the sex not the fact that you're watching 2 women. I think that's coincidental.
2006-09-14 10:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. You are not a lesbian. It's normal for people who wonder what it's like to have sex with the same sex. At college, there are women who are considered LUGS, which are Lesbians Until Graduation.
2006-09-14 17:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Steve R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you are not a lesbian it is just a turn on and does not mean your a lesbian kinda like fantasys it happens to alot of women
2006-09-14 17:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by candel_lite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. I have never known, personally, a woman who said "ugh that's gross". A woman's body is attractive...and not only to men. Go with it...believe me, guys think it's a turn-on as well - he's not gonna complain and I wouldn't either. Have fun !
2006-09-14 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by weisenheimer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women feel this way. However, many rarely act on their feelings. Just because two women "going at it" turns you on doesn't make you bisexual. If you aren't sure about wheter you want to pursue it, then don't. If you want to pursue it then possibly go online (try myspace) and make a friend. Most likely through discussions with that idividual you will learn more about your feelings.I wouldn't suggest hooking up with anyone online because who knows it could be a deranged loonatic, but at least you can talk about it anonymosly. Here is the definition if "bisexual" according to wikipedia.com:
Bisexuality is the sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, or sexual desire for individuals of either gender or of either sex. For some writers, the term is parallel to homosexuality and heterosexuality, while for others the term expresses a blend of the two.
Although observed in a variety of forms in human societies and in the animal kingdom throughout recorded history, bisexuality has only been the subject of serious study since the second half of the 20th century, and some disagreement remains about its prevalence and nature.
Bisexual orientation includes all the territory between the two extremes of homosexuality and heterosexuality. Bisexual people are not necessarily attracted equally to both genders, and tend to prefer one or the other. Moreover, it is possible for a bisexual person to be attracted to all genders but only one sex, or to all sexes but only one gender (note the definition of gender as social category, distinct from biological sex). Another view of bisexuality is that homosexuality and heterosexuality are two monosexual orientations, whereas bisexuality encompasses them both. However, some argue that bisexuality is a distinct sexual orientation on a par with heterosexuality or homosexuality.[1]
Individuals attracted to both males and females, like people of any other orientation, may live a variety of sexual lifestyles. These include: lifelong monogamy, serial monogamy, polyamory, polyfidelity, casual sexual activity with individual partners, casual group sex, and celibacy. For those with more than one sexual partner, these may or may not all be of the same gender.
Some people who might be classified by others as bisexual on the basis of their sexual behavior self-identify as gay, lesbian, or straight -- for example, a bisexual woman who considers herself a lesbian may do so on the basis that a lesbian might be defined as any woman who is attracted to women (even one who is also attracted to men), or a woman who is primarily attracted to other women. Likewise some men may identify as heterosexual because the only activities they engage in with other men do not involve anal sex (or more commonly, do not involve being the bottom in anal sex).[citation needed] This kind of ambiguity is problematic because some people maintain that exclusivity is part of the definitions for monosexual orientations, others feel that only one's current situation is what matters (if one is in a heterosexual marriage, they are straight), and still other groups prefer to say that bisexuality is non-existent and a bisexual person's heterosexual feelings are merely the result of internalized homophobia.[citation needed] Other bisexuals consider themselves distinct from homosexuals but part of the larger LGBT or queer community. Some people who engage in bisexual behavior may be supportive of lesbian and gay people, but still self-identify as straight, and still others consider any labels irrelevant to their situations.
2006-09-14 17:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could be bi because u r sttracted to your husband and then u r attracted to girls so that has to be it. there is nothing wrong with that....everyone is different and get turned on in different ways so dont feel bad.
2006-09-14 17:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come over and watch movies at my house
2006-09-14 17:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
PERFECTLY NORMAL DONT WORRY, ITS EXCITING BECAUSE ITS DIFFERENT TO YOU,
2006-09-14 17:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋