Its 8th grade. I am a Guy. Fat. Lazy, Squeeky Voice. I have a major crush on the hottest girl in school who either doesnt know i exist or hates me because i try to act *cool* around her so she is suspecious. Is there any way i can get her to notice me? Let alone go out with me.
2006-09-14 10:21:34 · 17 answers · asked by Pop T 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
P.S. I have a skweaky *** voice. And i AM FAT for people trying to say im not....13...180 lbs. I can surpass my mom.....
2006-09-14 10:38:32 · update #1
now i doubt you are really fat...but if you think you might have a chance with her((if shes smart))then ask her for help with homeowrk..be like "hey my name is YOUR NAME and i know you are really good at SUBJECT and i was wondering if you could help me?" if you actually know it or she isnt the smartest just say "hi my name is YOUR NAME and i really like you and i was wondering if you would like to go out with me?" and if she says no cuz ur a "dork" or if you are "fat" then she is a low ***** that doesnt deserve a guy as sweet as you!
btw im in 7th grade! if you have anymore questions email me! hiphopdnzr10@yahoo.com
2006-09-14 10:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is really sad, but she probably won't notice you if you are in the 8th grade. All girls care about at that age are scoring the hottest guy on campus. Maybe, if you went out for sport and made sure you take a shower daily, made some hair and clothing changes to spruce things up. And you can try being just nice to her. Don't give her gifts or anything, but like learn a cool trick or two, something funny to start a conversation. Be yourself, but better. Confidence helps. Girls do like a guy that can be nice as well as authoritative. So the old carrying her books thing, that is nice too. Have you seen Hitch? that is a great movie....
2006-09-14 10:35:16 · answer #2 · answered by Hurray for the ANGELS! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol...not sure bout the squeaky voice..but u have to work on ur confidence. and if that means exercising, "looking" better to feel better, than do it. it will only hurt ur feelings when u feel that u are fat and lazy, and someone u like thinks that about you too! so u have to change so YOU feel u are Not fat, Not lazy, and make sure u are a Great guy, Good Catch.... and then if she doesn't like u, leave her alone. don't let it hurt ur feelings. :) but when u don't work on ur confidence, it's a double whammy,...u already thnk bad about urself, and then that person probably will too unless she's reaaaalllly open minded and nice, which is hard during 8th grade to find!
2006-09-14 10:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go start pumping some iron, sounds like you would make a great football player. The more confident you feel without "acting" the easier it will be to attract a girl to you. When you give the vibe, "I got my stuff going on!" The girls can see that without you even speaking! So get yourself together and let her come to you!
2006-09-14 10:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Nikie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree 110% with Crystal concentrate on yourself and your own problems for the time being if you are so critical about how you look you are probably sending out poor vibes which people tend to shy away from get up get out get active...physically and mentally when your self-esteem picks up you will find more people want to be around you and people will be drawn to your positive attitude!!!
2006-09-14 10:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Erin O. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son she ain't worth ur time nor intrerest, she sounds so snobby find someone u know has da same interest like u someone like an old friend! But don't try and get dis girl she's just goin to use u den its ova, ur to good for her shes not to good for u.
And be urself don't try an act all dat be who u r and u'll find da right one.
2006-09-14 10:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Naruto 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, first I think you should work on your self image. They way you describe yourself is not very appealing. One must have self-confidence before trying anything. Not self confidence that you will succeed or win but self confidence that no matter what happens you will still feel good about yourself. Secondly You need to be yourself. Being fake or trying to fit in never works. If she doesn't like you for who you are, then you don't need her in your social life.
2006-09-14 10:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by tabbaco1980 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to the gym if you are fat, lay off the fries to, dont act cool around her because that anoys girls. Just say it like it is
2006-09-14 10:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Mixed bag 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you are saying you are fat and lazy then do something about it! forget about this girl she sounds stuck up and snobby and she's probably not worth your time. here is an idea, start to work on yourself and you will feel (and look!) better. then you will have confidence and other girls will notice. dont waste your time on popular girl, sooo not worth it.
2006-09-14 10:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lose weight and convienenly bump into her in the halls at school say sorry and introduce your self ,ask what her name is even if you alredy, know and talk to her again some time then ask her out!
2006-09-14 11:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋