i don't mind them talking behind my back but i don't want them in my life. thanks.
one more thing. if you have such nasty people at work where they could be a threat to your "existence" what do you do. you want to keep them at a distance but they'll just keep pushing just to be mean.
2006-09-14 10:11:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Just avoid them. They'll talk about you, your other co-workers, and your boss. They'll talk about anyone who comes into their range. Be pleasant but distant. You don't need to get too close to that negative energy!
2006-09-14 10:19:46 · answer #1 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be completely above-board at work and that will speak for you. If you hear that a rumor is being spread and are concerned that it could affect your boss's opinion of you, go discuss it with your boss. Tell him/her that you are not tattling, you would just like them to know that there is a rumor and these are what the facts are. So, if the boss hears it, he can discount it and maybe even have a word with who is spreading it.
2006-09-14 17:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by jboatright57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront them......... try that... and if push comes to shove try saying....." is your life so boring and perfect that u have to speak bad things about others!!!!!!!!!!!!"
look be the better person at the end of the day
people will always say bad things about u cos the r jealous about u and ur success rememebr 90% of the worlds population is negative and 10%will always be successful.... where do u fit in????
(Parting thought)................. don't get influenct by SNIOP
S:suggestive
N:negative
I:influence
O:on other
P:people
2006-09-14 17:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by smpnl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ignore them and give them and if they keep doing it beat them up. Also at work try to ignore them or tell the boss that it is going on because it would suck to quit or get fired because of them. You might have to quit.
2006-09-14 17:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your supervisor. If that doesn't work, tell your supervisor's supervisor.
If that doesn't work tell your lawyer you told your supervisor and the supervisor's supervisor. It is the only way you will stop the harassment. If you get fired, sue for damages.
Stop being a victim.
2006-09-14 17:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Teacher Man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never do the same to them and "killem" with kindness. In the end everybody gets whats coming to them.
2006-09-14 17:20:39 · answer #6 · answered by RT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No clue. I think my boss does this constantly trying to make me look bad in other peoples eyes.
2006-09-14 17:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by Special Ed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put them in the black list, then they disappear one after the other in a very short time.....lol.
2006-09-14 18:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an answer till you threw in work..
2006-09-14 17:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh at them & then loose them.
2006-09-14 17:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋