i love this guy to death and we have been pretty good friends for awhile and now i like him more than just a friend, but he doesn't know. when me and my friends walk by him and a few of his friends, i heard him telling them how much he hated me and that he was gonna go and tell me the next day, he told them also that he is too embarrassed to see me and we have to stop being friends. my friend went over to him the next day and asked him why he said that, and she asked him if he was actually talking about me. she came back and he was, he later told me today that he hates me and we are not friends anymore. =(
we were really good friends and now i feel so sad cause i really liked him. =(
2006-09-14 10:03:29 · 21 answers · asked by hmm.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If he doesn't want to be around you, then there's only one thing you can do: move on. Leave him alone and find someone else who actually likes you.
Welcome to heartbreak. It sucks, but luckily for you, it doesn't last. You'll find someone else, and when you do, you'll forget all about this guy.
Good luck.
2006-09-14 10:10:29 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how did you get from being good friends to where he's hating you? You have left out some important information in order for me to give you a very good answer. What happened to make him hate you? That's what you need to tell us. Otherwise, we can only guess. Were you too needy, perhaps? Like a clinging vine sort of thing? Did you reveal some secrets about him? Were you seeing other guys to make him jealous? Whatever the heck it is that you're not telling us, can you apologize and promise never to do it again? Will he listen to what you have to say? You can only try. Maybe if you remind him of the good times you've had, and also that you have been there for him, maybe he'll relent and consider you a good friend once more. However, you must promise him that you'll never do whatever it was you did to make him hate you again, and keep that promise.... Good luck!
2006-09-14 17:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I do not know what to tell you, some guys are just stupid and young or young and stupid. Whatever the case do not worry yourself if he acts like that you are probably better off without the lout. If he wanted you to put out or let him play with your goodies and you refused that could have caused the cessation of friendship or perhaps it could have been his buddies talking trash about you. Being a guy I know how the teenage mind works especially when it comes to matters of the heart. If he really did what you said I think he is a real jerk and you're better off. Good luck in the future honey I'm pulling for you.
2006-09-14 17:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a couple of possibilities...
1. He likes you. Guys are weird that way.
2. He found out you like him, and is afraid you'll be angry if he doesn't feel the same.
3. His friends have something against you and have pressured him to feel the same way.
Either way, you need to confront him about this. Be understanding and honest. Don't scream or cry. Tell him how much he matters to you as a friend. Make sure he understands where you're coming from. Then ask him why he's treating you like this.
2006-09-14 17:07:28 · answer #4 · answered by Smiles Like She Means It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that worthless s h i t head! Don't kiss anyones a$$. Don't waste your time on him. If you try to pursue him I think it would make you look pretty desperate because he already talked about you like you where s h i t on the bottom of his shoe. He was never really your friend, obviously he must have been pretending to be so when he was around you. What a back stabbing idiot. You will have many opportunities to make real friends, and there are way too many fish in the sea.
2006-09-14 17:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate Kisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really should talk to him alone - not send your friend. Did he say why he hates you all of a sudden? A lot of times, if a guy gets a "vibe" that you really like him "in that way" and he doesn't feel the same for you, he freaks and will act like that. I hope maybe you can patch up your friendship with him at least. Good luck.
2006-09-14 17:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Andrea F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE DO NOT FEEL SAD!!! If he doesn't want to be friends with you, there is no need to try to figure out why and worry about it. If he has his mind made up, that is his choice.
I am sure you have many other good friends in which you can enjoy spending your time with. I am sure you will meet another guy you like in no time. Don't waste your time worrying about someone who isn't worrying about you!
2006-09-14 17:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by lilshortrib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you're young and will get over him and move right on to the next. Don't wait around if he doesn't like you.
2006-09-14 17:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Chelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste your time or effort. He obviously doesn't know a good thing when he had it...too bad for him!!! You can find better friends than that!
2006-09-14 17:07:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is your question? Instead of letting your friends ask him why, wht dont you ask him straight face-to-face. Maybe you can solve the problem why did he hate you.
2006-09-14 17:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by kathy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋