I have gone to this masseuse about 4 different times.
I had never felt uncomfortable before but the last time he massaged (SUPER CLOSE)actually you couldn't get any closer between my inner thigh and girlie area...he mentioned while he was doing it there was a major pressure point right there...he always seems very proffesional but then he asked a question before...he asked if my butt was real or an implant (it's real)
this time when he did the thigh thing,I squirmed and he said (again in a professional sounding voice) are you squirming because I am arousing you? it's ok if you are aroused,it happens all the time...but I wasn't aroused just uncomfortable...am I wrong??
2006-09-14 09:50:27 · 27 answers · asked by NONE 1 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
another thing,usually he goes around my breasts the outer areas this last time he went over my nipples
2006-09-14 09:51:23 · update #1
This guy needs reporting!
Don't go to him again.
2006-09-14 10:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Penthouse Forum:
I have gone to this masseuse about 4 different times.
I had never felt uncomfortable before but the last time he massaged (SUPER CLOSE)actually you couldn't get any closer between my inner thigh and girlie area...he mentioned while he was doing it there was a major pressure point right there...he always seems very proffesional but then he asked a question before...he asked if my butt was real or an implant (it's real)
this time when he did the thigh thing,I squirmed and he said (again in a professional sounding voice) are you squirming because I am arousing you? it's ok if you are aroused,it happens all the time...but I wasn't aroused just uncomfortable...am I wrong??
2006-09-14 09:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-24 20:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I'm a massage therapist, and yes, there are pressure points around there, but they can be released with you clothed, and he shouldn't do points in that area as a MT anyway unless maybe you specifically asked, there's no huge benefit you can't do without . The butt question was obviously inappropriate, so is assuming he's arousing you. Yeah, people may rarely become aroused during massage, but the MT ignores it unless the person acts on it.Breast massage can be legit, but not his. It's only done when you request it, or it's offered and explained to you, usually done by a female, but nipples are strictly off limits, they must be gone around. Stop going to him and definitely talk to whoever his boss is.
2006-09-14 10:38:20 · answer #4 · answered by sd_massage_therapy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are getting a full body massage the only place they are supposed to touch that is considered "private" is your butt. They must ask before they touch. There is a pressure point on the inner thigh but it is really high up there. He is DEFINATLY in the wrong. He could have been pushing your limit the other times and thought that this type of behavior was warrented but I would speak up! ASAP the sooner you say something the more he will realize he was wrong. If you wait then it starts to change the situation!
2006-09-14 10:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like your masseuse is taking advantage of his position and I only say that because of the way he is responding to you. But it is not unheard for a masseuse to massage in those areas as long as it doesn't make you uncomfortable. I would suggest you just tell him that it makes you uncomfortable... if he is as professional as you say he shouldn't take offense. If he doesn't take it well then just drop him, because his response will let you know what his motives were. But I hope everything works out!
2006-09-14 09:57:16 · answer #6 · answered by JayB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this person a theraupeutic massage person? I go to someone who dose medical massage. I would think about that? I Really don't think that's normal, but I,m a Woman too and I haven't ever had anyone who dose massages Ever do that to me! We have massage school here in Mi. that have clinics on certian days, I do that and it saves on money, here it's $15 for a half Hr. and $25 for a full Hr. Something to check into.
2006-09-14 10:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by ladieerin94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOU are feeling uncomfortable, then you need to do something about it. Either report him to the manager or find someone else to massage you. He is taking advantage of the situation and you are allowing him to continue to do this. Asking you if you have implants is not professional at all, its none of his business!! Peace.
2006-09-14 10:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should speak up and tell him he is making you feel uncomfortable. That is WAY inappropriate. You can't RELAX with some stranger trying to cop a feel. Talk to the manager about him. If you aren't satisfied then do not return to them. Seriously he was WAY out of line, however you should definitely speak up for yourself.
2006-09-14 10:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very wrong and I know many professional massage therapists. Get a new one ASAP. He's obviously trying to give and get more then what he should be doing. Report him and never go back-he's obviously comilng on to you.
2006-09-14 09:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by PROUDJEW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this not an erotic massage so its not right. You need to report this person as hes taking advantage of the situation ASAP. Talk to the manager and explain the situation.
2006-09-14 09:52:28 · answer #11 · answered by Apollo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋