i have a friend who my friends and i think is gay but he wouldnt ever admit it. we think that maybe he doesnt even no for himself whether he is or not. hes not camp but he doesnt have any male friends and he reads ladies magz with us and compliments men alot. how can i find out?
2006-09-14 09:46:25 · 17 answers · asked by JAZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
why gay *problem*?
if you have the impression your acquaintance is gay, this is probably a good sign, he really is (women usually have a good sense for that).
and chances are (if he is complimeting boys) he is aware of it, too.
his problem, if you want to call it that, may actually be the same one you have when you wanna get laid; are you just walking up to a guy & tell him «f#ck me!» :-? :-?? :-/
think of the odds for you, and then think of the odds for him :-o
2006-09-16 11:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by mr. c 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless you want him for a boy friend will his being gay make a difference in your relationship to him? otherwise to be honest it really isn't your place to be into his sex life think of it this way how would you feel if someone was doing that to you.
there are some very nice men that have very female tendencies that are not gay and then there are some that are not.
Just be his friend sound like that is all he wants from you.
2006-09-14 17:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by no 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetheart ! The guy is in touch with his feminine side more than most men are. I have a friend the exact same way. He just preferrs womens company to mens. your friends Mom probably babies him and spends more time with him too.
Just treat him like one of the girls. He feels acceptance with you . So let him be himself and If he is gay atleast it won't be a surprise.
2006-09-14 16:55:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he really your friend? If so, what does it matter? Why can't you just accept him for himself. I am not trying to be mean or rude...I feel however that people should spend more time trying to make themselves better persons as opposed to judging or categorizing others.
2006-09-14 16:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is gay, who cares, gay men make the best friends. He'll tell you when he's ready. Don't ask unless you are sure he won't be offended.
2006-09-14 16:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoke to him in private and simply asked him! Then of course dose it really matter!
I've often told people it shouldn't matter to them unless they want to sleep with the person!
2006-09-14 16:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
show him some of your body,if he gets hard, u no he is either for woman or bi,and if u no a another gay male,have him rub his body on the other one,u can always ask him.or maybe he just like to hang with u girls,u never no.
2006-09-14 16:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
well he probably doesnt wanna say n ething cuz he doesnt watn u guys to think different of him .and u should jsut leave it alone ..
2006-09-14 16:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by gina r 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why try and find out would it make a difference?
If he is your find then let him do what he does.
2006-09-14 16:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by REDDVELVET 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you can't unless he tells you. don't pry into his life like that! that's disrespectful of his feelings and you may end up losing his friendship and really embarassing him. he'll tell you if he is or not when he's ready
2006-09-14 16:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋