How come after having sex with my g/f...read details?

Question

we were together for over 2.5 years i liked her very much and still do, she is very cute and sexy,lotsa guys were jealous.but after having sex each time there was a feeling like I didn't need her anymore, before i could do it 3-4 times in a row and then when i got used to her i could do it once and then I couldn't get it up...is that normal? ever had that happened to you? is it always like that? need advise from older people, I'm 25...

we already broke up 2 month ago

Answer 1

Yes...you are COMPLETELY NORMAL...she could be the most beautiful woman in the world, and you would probably still feel this way after a certain length of time...but think about it, is there really ANYTHING that you could do repetitively that would continue to seem new and exciting to you after you had experienced it a dozen times? Imagine seeing the same movie for twelve days in a row...or imagine riding a roller coaster 100 times a row... Basically, the only way for the experience to continually seem new and exciting is through the thoughts that you have in your head.
So let your imagination run wild if you want to continue to feel excited about her. Now is the time to exercise a little creativity.

Answer 2

Clinical studies have been done that prove given new partners, males can perform many more times than with the same one.

This is a true story I heard decades ago.

Calvin Coolidge and his wife were visiting a farm in the mid-west. Because of the earthiness of some of the scenes they would be seeing, the party agreed to divide into two groups, all the men in one, all the women in the other. Mrs. Coolidge found the chicken yard especially interesting. She noticed that there was only one rooster.
"How often does that rooster mate with a hen?" she asked the embarrassed guide.
"Three or four times each day," he answered.
"Really," said Mrs. Coolidge, obviously im-pressed. "Would you be kind enough," Mrs. Coolidge said confidentially to the guide, "to point that out to the President when he comes through?"

In due time, the President and his group arrived at the chicken yard. "Mrs. Coolidge," the guide said uncomfortably, "asked me to point out to you, sir, that this rooster mates three or four times a day."
"I see," Coolidge said. "Tell me, son, does the rooster always mate with the same hen?"
"Oh, no, sir. Always with a different hen."
"Would you be so kind," the President said confidentially, "to point out that fact to Mrs. Coolidge?"

Answer 3

well, this happens to u because u are too used to her...she doesn't atrract u like before, like u were on ur first times...is about attraction here...some men could be attracted by their girlfriends for years, but some not..if u love her, and u wanna get over this wtih her, u should try to get ur sexual life to another level...i mean, tell her that u wanna try new things, new stuff...think at what turns u on and tell her to do that thing....make sex in different places, make public sex, do something wild to spice up a little bit that "thing", cause, sincerly, if u will do nothing, this relationship will end...where's no quality sex is nothing....good luck

Answer 4

Its part of the growing of a relationship. Try new things and realize that sex isnt the only driving factor in a couple.

Answer 5

It is simply the nature of the beast..
Once the new has worn off, it isn't as exciting...
That doesn't mean you don't love her as much...

Answer 6

You had too much sex! Give it a rest and you will be as horny as ever! Stop having pre-marital sex and find someone to marry you bum!

Answer 7

I hear you...my husband makes me ill

Answer 8

she just dosent do it for you any more face it its time for a new cat