I went out too part with my ex. bf who is my current bf though we were seperated at the time best friend so i thought i could trust him. We both got drunk and had sex i am now pregnant. What i did not now was that my ex. bf was married at the time for only a month his last gf it was a quickie wedding who had been pregnant it turned out to be a tubal. Now he says he wants to get back together with me and is staying on my couch?do i get with him for the baby?
2006-09-14 09:29:24 · 20 answers · asked by jackie w 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
my current bf could not cope ith a child that was not his and left.
2006-09-14 09:33:26 · update #1
I still have feelings for my ex. bf cause he took my viginity and everything else and was my first love.
2006-09-14 09:34:33 · update #2
Did you read this before you posted it? Is he your ex boyfriend, or your current boyfriend? Also the letter i when used as a word referring to yourself is a "I".
Why would you want to be with someone who would cheat on their pregnant wife. Of course the way you have written this question it is hard to tell exactly what is going on.
What exactly did he finally show?
2006-09-14 09:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by yzerswoman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say yes, only because I hope he can be the brains of the operation, I mean what a jumbled and confusing mess of a question that you wrote! I would say I hope that you were not that stupid, and were drunk when you wrote it, but since you are pregnant let's hope that is not the case! Why would you want someone that cheated on his then wife, and wasn't there for her with her tubal pregnancy? People are an EX for a reason, so you should never look back! And this one really sounds like a winner! Baby or not he doesn't sound like he would be a good person to be around you, or your baby!
2006-09-14 16:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by pitbull lover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never get married for the sake of your child. Marriage is a bond between two people so committed to each other that they want to declair their union to the world. If you do not feel this strongly then don't do it. The baby is a blessing on its own. Deal with that hurdle first then move on to marriage after the baby is born. Any problems you have now will be applified after the birth so keep that in mind. However, if you do feel that strongly for each other, go for it!.
2006-09-14 16:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by JENNIFER B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get together JUST for the baby... you will have a miserable life. I can tell you that from experience.
Be together because you WANT to be together. Being together only for children is a horrible idea. The child will grow up in a house with no love between their parents and thats a horrible way to grow up.
2006-09-14 16:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I remember your story from earlier this week ..... so you told your ex about the baby? But he's married? Whats he gonna do about his wife cuz she's pregnant too. Are you really gonna be able to handle being with a guy who has another girl carrying his OTHER baby?
If he's the love of your life then maybe you should get with him ... but what about his wife????
2006-09-14 16:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to be with the guy then that is great but don't be in a relationship with him just for the baby. It will not work out it never does. but if you love the guy and he loves you then at least try to make it work. But from what i have seen being with someone just for a baby does not usually work out. Good luck.
2006-09-14 16:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by kissadawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your ex sounds like a real looser, what an ¬ss to sleep with you while he was married, yack-dont you feel dirty? Get rid of him asap as he is going to cheat on you and both of you have accumulated so much negative energy already, isn't it time for a new start with no drama?
2006-09-14 16:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Caro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings and so does he and you are having a baby, you should give it a try. Don't get married though. Getting married bc you are pregnant is always a mistake. good luck.
2006-09-14 16:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by caseofyou2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it if your not truely happy with him...the way I see it he is pretty much tied into childsupport, so go and find you someone who will treat you right and makes you happy!.....and plus if you just stay for your baby and you end up not being happy it just leads to emotional scars for both you and your baby.....but in the end it is all up to you... Good luck, I will pray for you!
2006-09-14 16:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by B.R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking us something that only you should have the answer to. Do you want to be with him? You're the one that knows him and you're the only one that knows what's best for you and your soon to come baby. If you think you should do it ONLY because of the baby I don't think you'd be happy and if you're not happy he won't be happy and you wouldn't want to put the baby in that kind of environment.
2006-09-14 16:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by JEJEMMY♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋