My friends are about fight and they are both my friends wat the **** should I do
2006-09-14 09:26:58 · 19 answers · asked by grillz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let them figure it out themselves. If you get between them then one of them is going to get hurt, because you "are taking sides". Stand on the sidelines, make sure they don't get physical. Try telling them both that what they are doing is childish and stupid.
If they don't want to listen to you, then leave. Once they lose their audience, they'll probably stop anyway.
2006-09-14 09:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as the fighting between them goes, just stay out of it........but, in the meantime, talk to each one of them alone and find out what the problem between them is and explain to each one that they are both your friends and let both girls know what qualities the other one has that makes her your friend. Maybe they just haven't given each other a chance, so you can let both of them know what it is about the other one that might turn their feelings around and explain to them that you feel caught in the middle......good luck
2006-09-14 17:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by dixiegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are both your friends you may not want to get involve. Just try to prevent them from fighting, but if you can't do that, then maybe you should just let them take it out.
2006-09-14 16:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation not too long ago. you just have to be there for them both. comfort them when they're hurting over the hurtful things the other person said, ect. talk to them separately and see if they want to make up. soon everything will be back to normal.
2006-09-14 16:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by straitjacket feeling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all do not take any ones side.. just try to get them ask together by reminding them all the good times they had together
2006-09-14 16:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them fight, just don't get in between their problem, even though their both your friends.
2006-09-14 16:35:37 · answer #6 · answered by jbspoiledeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it, it is their fight not yours. You will probably do more damage than good if you get involved.
2006-09-14 16:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should help them work it out and put them in the same room ask them what they both have in commen and what they DO like about each other
2006-09-14 16:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by madi h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to just stay out of it .It's not about you.they will still be your friend in the end.you can also try telling them how this is making you feel.maybe they will stop.
2006-09-14 16:30:34 · answer #9 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them not to put you in middle of it. Stay out of it.
2006-09-14 16:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by my_hart2hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋