My hub has had a moment 2 years ago with a common married female friend we have. my hub and her kissed and made out at her place and they afterwards said it's better if they don't do anything more and again cause they are married and it's not right. However why is it that my hub cannot stop observing the woman when we see her at parties? Why can't he stop gazing in her eyes or up and down her white blouse with white camise she has one underneath? Why he gotta look in her eyes and hold it there with her most of the time? And the emails as I have read some they all come from the woman who writes to him. She does not write she misses him and loves him and all that cause she knows that wil not go anywhere and they talked about not being able to do this. However in all her emails she can talk about herself, her emotions, her job, family, and she is the first to share them with my man in emails. My man makes damn sure to reply every single email of hers answering all she wants to kno
2006-09-14 09:07:10 · 4 answers · asked by katezambelli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
of him and his weekend plans and his family and his job and all that other friendly stuff...which to me is good friends but knowing where they have been and the fact they keep looking in each others eyes gives me the feeling that my hub possibly does love her but just can't have her cause that is not right?? I mean he does not initiate emails to her, but he replies to all her emails even ones that I dont write to her for a month but he remembers all the time and in them he asks her questions about her or something and she replies in addition to that then. Do they have good chemistry and an emotional affair would anyone say? Emotional affairs are far more serious then sexual affairs right? Anyone?
2006-09-14 09:09:37 · update #1
for those who are wondering...my hub nor the woman never told me about their encounter 2 years ago...I found out from my cousin who saw them together!!
2006-09-14 09:10:54 · update #2
The writing is on the wall, girl. Time for plan B.
2006-09-14 09:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by chickenger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has already crossed the line and cheated with this women he should not have any contact with her whatsoever. He is totally disrespecting you over and over again but your letting him.
2006-09-14 09:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like your man and her have a strong physical attraction. Why not confront him with it? I can't believe you found out he was makin out with your *friend* and you've sat on that info for two years!!! C'mon girl...grow some nards and fight for your man!
2006-09-14 09:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your question is too long all i need is 2 points
2006-09-14 09:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋