my friend (actually BFF!) has always been there for me, and she's always been the one to help me get through tough times and laugh when i feel like dying. but what should i do since she is the reason why i feel that way? i have no one to turn to and i feel horrible. we were really good friends and she would always tell me how great i was to her.. now nothing seems to matter to her accept this other girl. im friends with this other girl though. she still says we're bffg's(best friends forever, gangsta - it's our thing..) but she signed "BFF" on the other girls book and they are all over eachother. i cry every night and hold back tears when my EX BFF asks if somethings wrong. i can't explain it anymore than i am right now. honestly, i feel broken.
2006-09-14 09:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by hmm.. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
grow up and realize you can have 2 best friends. sounds like she is concerned so just get on w/ life, be her friend and be happy.
2006-09-14 09:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This may sound nuts, but talk with your friend when you both have your alone time. Talking in front of the "new" friend will not help, because you and your ex-bff have some stuff to work out. Tell her exactly how you feel and ask why. Once you receive your answer dry your tears and keeping moving. She was nothing serious to worry about in the first place.
2006-09-14 09:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by Golden Scepter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel! Just remember! Real friends are forever! Relax - she'll be back soon! Besides - anyone can have more than one BFF! And - think of this! You push her - she may walk away! When you talk to her - be gentle!
2006-09-14 09:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Blond Logic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing to would be to explain what you feel like to your ex bff and if she really understands then she will try to work things out with you and get you to feel better. Believe me i have had it happen to me.
2006-09-14 09:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are a typical little stupid cowgirl. every girl evisions ther bff to be exclusive for no one else to inferfere into ur two's circle and powerful friendship. It happend to me many yrs ago with my then buddy until he met this girl and yrs later were married and moved away. i thought, "Hey what happend to our plans?" and now we dont speak its ok all people's roads lead to different places. I spent 3 yrs at job in manhattan and now working in brooklyn with all these other people. its so weird how just like that my surroundings change. continue being friends but forget the jealousy part and accept all people. ur bff's vision and future plans are so not the same as YOUR vision....got it?
2006-09-14 09:15:16 · answer #5 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you are hurt about how close her and your other friend are becoming. Maybe she can tone it down some when you are around. Good Luck!
2006-09-14 09:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by Michelle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least muddy Cons are sweet shoes! You got that going for you.
2006-09-14 09:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by !@#$ (formerly Ralph M) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make some more friends, thier are billons of people in the world and many of these will love you.
2006-09-14 09:15:41 · answer #8 · answered by guysmithdenise 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your still in high school aren't you. One day you will realise that you can have more than one friend at a time
2006-09-14 09:12:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like you're really mature, and like you have some good friends.
im worried about the gangster thing though, boys will never like you if you keep that up.
2006-09-14 09:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋