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I talk to this guy online, and he hasnt come online or texted me in only 2 days, but all this time i've thought it was about 5 or 6 days!

Im so disgusted with myself because of this...i miss talking to him - why am i feeling like this, im such a sad person!? How can i stop this....aaaaaaaaargh!

2006-09-14 08:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

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LOL thats funny. but.... i can somewhat sympathize with you. If he hasnt come online its for a reason dont jump to any conclusions likehe doenst like you anymore orthat he doesn't want to talk to you. Unless you know u did something wrong. Be patient he will text you and then you'll feel silly for feeling so wrong in the first place.

2006-09-14 08:40:07 · answer #1 · answered by Aquafina 2 · 0 0

It sounds like you're starting to get your sense of perspective back. That's a good sign. I'd say leave it for a few days and then get in touch again but just in a chatty friendly way, asking him if he's seen a film you've just enjoyed or throwing him a question about something that you thought he might know the answer to because it's his area of interest.

Alternatively, you could just take the plunge and tell him how much you enjoy talking to him!

2006-09-14 09:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by CJ 4 · 0 0

You have fallen hard. U need to stop getting attatched to people like that if it happens alot it is really unhealthy and you should maybe forget the internet dating but if this is the only one then he must be something special. Just wait and see how it turns out. He might have a good reason for not getting intouch dont worry about it though. If its not ment to be its not ment ti be. and the opposite.

2006-09-14 08:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Laura C 2 · 0 0

why are you sad...you have a connection with this person at the end of the day...maybe he is busy, try leaving him a text or email just asking if he is ok and then leave it...dont want to come across like a bunny boiler...if you still hear nothing in a few days then perhaps he has got a new 'friend'...... you will be fine i am sure xxxx

2006-09-14 08:40:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

my dear princess, its not an act of disgust if you are longing for someone but humane in doing so.
its a person with both heart, and soul may know the true sense of emotion of missing someone.
honour as one should be as to have the passion of need of understanding that the desire of indulgement.
have faith within yourself for he may be far from the words but its close by the heart.
i took have miss a person so much in my heart that i wouldn't even try to speak to her when she's around but comfort i'm to know her smile lies in my heart.

2006-09-14 08:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by marxice21 3 · 0 0

Give yourself a break. Are you getting addicted to him, or what?
Go jogging, swimming, make some exercise, talk to your girls(not always about him cause it will hurt you more and get them bored...) and log off the chat room once in a while... watch a movie, listen to music..... or whatever else you enjoy doing!
Good luck.

2006-09-14 08:54:06 · answer #6 · answered by Hibernating Ladybird 4 · 0 0

We don't know anything about you.
But you sound like a loner and the computer has provided you with an EASY way to avoid being lonely. It is just a computer and no one can guarantee much here.

2006-09-14 08:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

it is perfectly normal to miss someone you like. Who know's you might marry him someday (which is also very common these days). Think how people used to think during the time telephone or speedydating service was invented. I say don't worry it's not much of a big deal. Welcome to the 21st century.

2006-09-14 08:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by chocolate_chip_cookie01 2 · 0 0

I get like that as well. Worrying that I have said something to upset them.

There is usually a valid reason why. You obviously trust him to feel this way about it.

2006-09-14 08:39:04 · answer #9 · answered by daisymay 5 · 0 0

forget online stuff go out and meet people or meet this guy on line get his mobile phone number talk for real not in a chat room or email

2006-09-14 08:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

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