Ok, i am a girl in high school and i have a tiny prob. There are these 3 people who pretend they are my friends. There is this other person who is my BFF. Those 3 people are (not real names) Jojo, Anny, Tara. So Jojo, told my BFF Zoni, that she hates me. Zoni told that to me and i said that Jojo should say it in my face. So today Jojo came up to me with Anny and Tara and she said it inot my face. ok. Now what i should do? I mean can you suggest a payback or something. Or something that really bugs any person. Anything. Or just be all nice to her but never get my payback? I need help!
2006-09-14 08:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by Khrystyna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
How do i kill them with nicness? Give me some examples!!
2006-09-14 08:42:58 · update #1
People will be people. You have no control over them but you have control over what you say and do.
Make it your goal to have more friends, from which you will have more choice. Sometimes, friends choose you; you do not choose them.
In the mean time, be polite yet firm and resolute when they do try to be annoying. Play along to know them better and find out they way they see you, but be aware if it starts to show signs of getting out of hand. That is your cue to leave for class or something, more importantly, your cue to move on with life by getting on your studies, make more friends and get to do the things you enjoy.
2006-09-16 10:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by pax veritas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love sweet sweet revenge,
I would recomend spreading her most embarassing seceret around,or maybe beat her @ss.
But in any case you really can do both. Be the completely innocent little girl who could do no wron at school, only this b**ch will see what you are really up to.
Start out with beating her @ss, and when she goes to tell on you, if you keep up the innocent facade, no one will believe her.
Next steal her boyfriend, or crush or something along those lines, and then inconspicuously drop some horrible rumors around the school,
But a warning must be placed, Karma always comes back threefold.
So you make your own choice, you might come to find out to just let it go, and watch all her friends backstab her for what she has done to you. Good Luck,
Listen to a little psycopathic, they have some good advice too.
2006-09-14 15:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "okay". And leave it at that. Don't let it bother you. You don't control her immature emotions. Don't pay her back because that would be giving her the control. She has given control of herself to you, and you can either use it or abuse it. Don't fight fire with fire... just let the fire burn its self out. You will be the bigger more mature person for not reacting in any way, shape or form. Go watch the movie, "Mean Girls" in the end, there's no reason for these stupd games teenage girls play with heach other. I hope this helps you put it behind you, and move on with more important things.
2006-09-14 15:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by jennilaine777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, none of them are really your friends. Just go on with your life and don't bother with her. She's not worth your time. Biggest payback would be that what she did, doens't even bother you. Say Hi when you see her, but thats it, keep walking. Be the bigger person, you will find friends that are true to you.
2006-09-14 15:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with her, ask her why she hates you and see if theres anything you can do to help the problem.
If the situation worstens tell a teacher about it
hope this helps
with love,
Fiona
fftc06@yahoo.com
Ah I see there not your friends..
Well just ignore them then, and if they say something to you agian, just be so nice to them, it will drive them nuts! And eventually they will leave you alone
2006-09-14 15:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Fiona M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just find new friends. Just ignore those other people. Probably they'll stop talking to you when you ignore them or hang out with other people.
2006-09-14 15:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grow up, they aren't worth it. Be the bigger person and stay away from them. Don't waste your time. It hurts, but that will pass. Girls can be such b-itches sometimes.
2006-09-14 15:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with niceness. It will drive them crazy.
2006-09-14 15:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Xena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not only petty but stupid. Ignor them and find real friends.
2006-09-14 15:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them
2006-09-14 15:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋