2006-09-14 08:24:29 · 49 answers · asked by mel_06_01 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is 21? How old are you? He probably got married before he exhausted his youthful exuberance. You have to make the best of it. Accompany him and hope for the best. Hopefully his idea of fun will conform with yours as the years go by.
2006-09-14 08:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by violeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. It's a big deal to turn twenty one, for all of us, for some reason. Let him go, it'll only happen once, the 21st birthday I mean, and show him you trust him totally.
2 RULES if he goes.
1) He and his buddies use a designated driver, taxi or car service. You know they're gonna be drinking.
2) He remembers you letting him do this, even though he may not remember much of the night, and lets you go to one on ladies night.
First RULE applies for the ladies.
Hopefully, after this, you'll both have it out of your system and not do it again.
2006-09-14 08:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, on my 27th birthday, my girlfriend took me to a strip club. We had a great time. She bought a private dance for me and seemed to enjoy watching me enjoy it. It was the one and only time I've ever been to a strip club.
I think you should be the one who takes him to strip club. You can enjoy it with him. It would be good shared experience. And, you might reap some benefits when you two go home.
2006-09-14 08:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only if you can go with him! I went through this crap with my EX boyfriend. He wanted to go for his birthday and I though nothing would happen because he was going with my brother and my step dad. Well guess what....he was sucking on one of the strippers nipples right there in front of everyone. Nice huh!!!! I say NO WAY! The guys get drunk and the girls get naked, you know what all that leads too, and don't let him tell you the girls don't do anything, that is bull. The birthday boy always gets extra special attention!
2006-09-14 08:35:10 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why not? It's a club, not a dating service. He's only 21 and should experience this sort of thing at least once in his life. Go with him and hoot & holler right along with him! By the way, "let him"? What the heck is that?? Controlling of a partner isn't a good thing. Trust and respect should be at the top of both of your lists.
2006-09-14 08:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Decoy Duck 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't, those places are trashy. My husband has never been and has no desire to ever go. Your man sounds like an immature, selfish jerk for even thinking that going to a strip club as a married man is acceptable. Just tell him NO WAY.
2006-09-14 09:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by Vampira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go with him! It's worth trying once. If you're not 21 yet, though, give him a "coupon" on his birthday, redeemable on YOUR birthday, for one trip to a strip club and $20 is $1 bills.
2006-09-14 08:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not? You'll be a cool and understanding wife. You'll sow your maturity and self-confidence and he, being 21, will eventually grow out of the strip club bug by 25 at the earliest. 'Sides...make it interesting and go with him. Take on a lap dance or two. Make it fun together.
2006-09-14 08:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
A strip club is not cheap...the drinks cost 2 times as much, and to see the way stripers throw them selves around is funny ,
But it was fun, I went just once...The wife told me I can go again to a stipe club if i want to, as long as she gets to go with, and I let her go to a male srtip club and I got to tag along with...
If you trust him let him go being his 21st b-day, a marriage is suppposed to be built on trust, I've been married 15 yrs, Trust what your heart says..
2006-09-14 08:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is honest enough to tell u he wants to go to a strip club rather than do it behind ur back u should let him go. Relationships are built on trust, reward his honesty, u never know it may add more spice to your marrige.
2006-09-14 08:33:03 · answer #10 · answered by guzzler 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋