the guy and the girl ae friends,..... they flirt a lot and then the girl tells the guy she loves him... the guy ignores her now? so fist he flirts... then he finds out he likes her and then he stops talkinh to her...........what is going on?
2006-09-14 08:15:16 · 12 answers · asked by Vanesa G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i guess maybe he is scared to move on and be more than friends with this girl. but it does seem like they should just go out and get it over with. but some people are just to go into a relationship because they are afraid that if they break up or something that it might ruin their friendship that they have. i suppose they would have to talk about a relationship and what would happen in things changed and they broke up.
2006-09-14 09:00:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
f**k it don't say that. I think my friend likes me!!! (it's the other way around, I know, but still...) and I'm usually right about this. I hope I'm not this time. back to you: guys are weird bout this kind of things: maybe he just wanted a friend, a person he could trust and talk to, not necessarily a girlfriend. talk to him and decide what's next. I'm sure you don't want to lose him as a friend, even if you can't have him as a boyfriend
2006-09-14 15:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had that happen before in similar ways. The guy acts like he's likes you, and so you kinda semi-flirt back, and then they back down. Either their intimadated or want to be the leader of it, or didn't really like you that way or like someone else now. I hope it all works out for you!
2006-09-14 15:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by bRiLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually this happens some noticed or some not. Boys are different from girls they could say like but love .........? Girls are emotional fools sorrey I am girl too. Girls are not thinking about future, like today I love him but if in future we are getting married, is he going to fullfil my dream of happy family. Boys likes a girl is OK, then love means they are traped. If somthing happens like that, that means that person has different meaning of love. No good for even friendship.
2006-09-14 15:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys and maybe girls have possibly been so as their person characteristic, where they use to be unconsciously over-friendly with the opposite genders.
where i can say so myself getting most of the girls and especially my personally adopted sisters to mistaken me of loving them which i really do love them but its more of a family kind yet i just can't stop myself from over-caring of them, its something about my past that it won't stop me from treating the girls around like princesses.
so, do you consider this as a flirt or just over-brotherly love.
2006-09-14 15:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by marxice21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just needs time to cope with the bomb dropped on him. Give him some time to sort it out within.
2006-09-14 15:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wanted to be fwb (friends with benefits) and when you told him that you love him, he might have gotten scared because he gave you the wrong idea..
2006-09-14 15:17:50 · answer #7 · answered by g.i. janee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is scared,, immature it sounds like,, you can love a friend, it isnt the same as a relationship,, sometimes I think it is stronger,, good Friends are forever
2006-09-14 15:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might just be that he ain't feeling you that way. That's why i don't ever make friends with chicks i just screw them.
2006-09-14 15:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's insecure. He doesn't know what he wants.
2006-09-14 16:38:13 · answer #10 · answered by jbspoiledeyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋