I just got married to a man who was younger than me on Aug. 5, 2006. He knew my father was very ill with a rare form of Muscle disease and my husband and I made agreement that we would stay with my parent until my dad passed on. We were having a good time and do what we can do. love my husband and I took care of all he need and do whatever I could. on septmber 10, I was sick from a low blood count and was weak. My husband walked out of the door on me and my parents were very upset about it. It turned out that my husband called his dad to come and get him and that he told lies about numberous of things. his sister was picturing me as I was a whore and the reason why he married me was because I was pregant and then I had miscarriaged, but I wasn't pregant due I was on depo provera shot. My family sent me to my grandparent to recovery from this heartache. Now, I think he lie to people to order to get people's attention on him or something. everyone told me it wasn't my fault, but his.
2006-09-14 08:12:46 · 9 answers · asked by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 25 yrs old.
2006-09-14 08:19:23 · update #1
I'm 25 yrs old.
2006-09-14 08:19:33 · update #2
Dear Confused, I think all of us think it is our fault when the other leaves but take heart IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT, I am sorry you and your loved ones are going thru this terrible sickness, and to make matters worse your heartache, you are trying to make every ones life better but your own, you took care of your husband, you are taking care of your family all commendable, but where is the time to take care of YOU, I understand about the heartache too much I guess, girlfriend do this one little thing for yourself, think hard real hard. What makes to just forget about everything for just alittle while? Mine is the day spa, people taking care of you and every whim you think you might have, you need to rejuvenate. and then take one day at a time. Good luck and God Bless you and your family.
2006-09-14 08:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your fault. He is sorry sack of sh*t. Move on and get an annulment. You don't need a jackass in your life like that. Come on now... A month later he walks out for no apparent reason? He knew what he was getting himself into with your father, and the fact that you got sick... Well that's something a husband is obligated to deal with with his wife. Isn't that part of all standard wedding vows? If he was lying about why he was marrying you in the first place, and telling lies about you all along, he doesn't deserve you. I hope that you get physically better soon, and for your own mental sanity, just know that you didn't do anything wrong at all, and he showed his true colors. HE is not worth it at all. I don't know you well at all, but it takes a good person to stay with an ill parent and help the best they can. That in itself is very hard work, and very mentally straining. Go back and be with your father, and soak in all the time you have left with him.
2006-09-14 15:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's a psycho who doesn't have the guts or the balls to be a man. I'm sorry you had to find this out in your greatest moment of need. Are you at fault? No more then I am. Good luck.
2006-09-14 15:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u took too much care of him; and he is a real b'astard, who will pay his dues in time to come. take it one step at atime, and once you have sorted ur life in this short term, think what u want in life, then attempt to salvage with ur hubby if you can. ask him what went wrong, perhaps that would be a start. then see where that takes u
2006-09-14 15:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are right to say it's not your fault. you didn't ask him to do this to you. when you married him you thought you could trust him. you haven't been married long so you may be ab;e to get an annullment. what he did was wrong and you deserve better. i wish you the best of luck
2006-09-14 15:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by storm_magus3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better off with out him just move on and take life to its fullest
2006-09-14 15:17:55 · answer #6 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not your fault......... I am so sorry he did this to you. I am so sorry you fell in love and married a JACK*SS, you deserve alot better then that, and I am sorry he did this..............but HE did this, not you................ its NOT your fault......... you did nothing wrong and you sound to me like a wonderful woman, lover, and wife....... it is definitly HIS loss that he walked out on you like this. I hope you see that, and I hope you gather strength from it as well. BLessed be my fellow sister........ bLessed be.
2006-09-14 15:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you honey? Sounds like to much drama!!
2006-09-14 15:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by ssmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he walked out on u.
2006-09-16 18:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋