I met a person and was very impressed by him.We soon started chatting on net as he lives at some other place and were almost addicted to each other.Suddenly I find he is not coming online at all.This is killing me.What should I do?
2006-09-14 07:39:07 · 23 answers · asked by money money 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should be patient, send an email of concern, and if nothing results from understand there is probably a good reason (probably another woman) for him not being on line and attempt to move on.
Judging from your other questions...aren't you married?
Best Wishes!!
2006-09-14 07:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately that is the problem with on-line love... If it is an on-line long distance love it is so easy for them to just disappear and leave you wondering what has happened. I've been there and it sucks!! You sit there and remember all the things he said and how that makes you feel and wonder why he left. There is not much that you can do. If you have his phone number call him. I'm not sure how long you've known him so it really is hard to say what you should do. When I was in your situation I felt trapped. I waited and waited... yet remained trapped. I started to write a letter that turned into a notebook for him. I wrote in it like a journal and expressed what I was going through and how it hurt and all that. It was a good way for me to feel like I was talking to him and letting some of the anger go. Best of luck to you... try to continue living your life and make yourself happy.
2006-09-14 14:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by tabkat73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be patient. There could be several reasons why he isn't coming back on line. And it may or may not have anything to do with you. But don't jump to conclusions. Wait for a reply. When he gets around to getting your message, he will return it if he's still interested. If not, then you must find someone else. You don't know him very well, so you must not get too upset over this. I would find someone else if he doesn't get back to you. When you connect with the right person, hopefully they won't upset you like this. But try to be patient with people. Good luck.
2006-09-14 14:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting someone on line to be romantic with is an illusion. There is no possible way you can get an adequate perception of how the other person is in the real world. Let it go. Chat for fun. When it comes to dating-only do it when you have met the person in real life.
2006-09-14 14:42:15 · answer #4 · answered by lady K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem with messaging, U can't see them.
Don't take anything as Gospel from any1 U meet on-line.
Believe it when U see the whites of their eyes.
It's the only way 2 B sure that U're getting the truth, face-2-face.
Sorry mayb he'll B on later.
If not shrug UR shoulders, move on, better luck next time.
:)
2006-09-14 14:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many ways to explain why he doesnot online at all.
* he doesnot has internet not, ( computer has problem)
* he need time to think about how to treat u
* he doesnot like u. so hide himself
* he has personal problem can not online.
U can left a message to him and ask him how he is now? this will not killing u, he is just a net friends, u need to get over with it, u can find more later. GOOD LUCK !!
2006-09-14 14:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by KAREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful to allow yourself too strong of feelings for people that you meet online. It's like a one dimensional version of someone, speaking on the phone is two dimensional, and knowing them in person is three dimensional. Before you get to the level you are... I'd get to know him better. Is he worth it really?
But I understand... its easy to fall in love with people online because its mostly your fantasy of them anyway.
2006-09-14 14:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as people always say that patience is a virtue. if he feels the same way about you it means he wil definitely come back online. in the mean time rock back and enjoy what life has to offer you.
2006-09-14 14:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u have a number? call him up and have a chat? theres not much you can do if you have no other way of contacting him...wait around? or get out and meet someone who lives near u!
2006-09-14 14:41:24 · answer #9 · answered by Queenie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OVER IT! The guy does not even live anywhere near you! Find someone who you can actually talk to in person!
2006-09-14 14:40:46 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋