Went out to party it was my birthday and i woke up with my bestfriends boyfriend. I dont remeber much about what happened that night and to make matters worse i live with her boyfriend , two other guy friends from high school since i have always been a tom boy and her. I am know almost 5 months and starting to show and dont know what to do and this is killing me. I now it has to be his because before this i had not had sex in over a year!We agreed never to tell my best friend of what happened. How do i tell him i am pregnant?
2006-09-14 07:00:39 · 5 answers · asked by Chrissy s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Please do not be mean i am not a slut. my buddy steve saw me naked and i think he might know something .
2006-09-14 07:02:58 · update #1
i dont want to say anything because she thinks he might ask her to marry him this week.
2006-09-14 07:04:58 · update #2
i dont want to say anything because she thinks he might ask her to marry him this week.
2006-09-14 07:05:14 · update #3
i dont want to say anything because she thinks he might ask her to marry him this week.
2006-09-14 07:05:22 · update #4
Dude you brought it on yourself. I am not even sure if I think you ar serious. If you are, then you better fess up to everyone. It won't be fair to your child if you don't. That is the top priority now.
2006-09-14 07:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Mouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the truth. It is always the best bet. Short term pain and it may ruin your friendship. But long term is what matters and your child will not suffer as much. Neither will you or anyone else involved for that matter.
It will really suck to have to tell everyone, but you really must. Think about it... Truth or Lie. Which path do you want to take?
2006-09-14 14:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Bran McMuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say talk to him and ask him if he is thinking amout marrying her if so don't tell him anything ans let them live happily. You can always say you had a one night stand with a guy . Sometimes it is best to leave sleeping dogs lay. He doesn't need to know if you don't want him too. Good Luck in what ever decision you make.
2006-09-14 14:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by c0mplicated_s0ul 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girlie you need to tell him straight you are pregnant and if you are such a good friend you would tell your friend abotu what ahppended on that night and tried to explain it other ..yes you may had los ther friendship but at least you would have your consious free you need to talk to that scum bag that got you pregnant and telll gim and also say yu rre going to tell you best friend(his gf) anyway br honest its teh best way out of it and if the scum bag wants to b a paretn then he will stick by you if not then u cna b a single mum, there are plenty of worser things and u ay have lsot afriend but you can make lots more and plus u ahve a baby so ur blesed. guk look babes and remember be honest1! love betie from portugal
2006-09-14 14:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are too young to be hiding crap like that from everyone. it will eat you up inside and its not healthy for that baby...what's the worst that could happen? She should not marry him if he has cheated on her anyway...BE A FRIEND and stop being selfish! besides...you deserve child support for that kid...IT TAKES 2! He is so wrong for keeping it all from her and she doesn't deserve to go into a marriage blind to the facts that her 2 "best friends" know. Grow up real quick, girl, cause your about to be a mommy.
2006-09-14 14:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by key2e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋