I've confronted him before and he denys it. He also hides everything he does concerning sex.
2006-09-14 06:46:34 · 20 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get into porn yourself and make him watch you do stuff with other men/women/toys/animals
2006-09-14 06:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When you say he "Hides everything he does concerning sex" what are you trying to say?? Is he saying that he won't do this and won't do that???
I can't say that I have the same problem but, I can tell you that it does make the sex life a little spicier! No one is saying that he is trying to replace you. Maybe he is wanting something different in the bedroom. Are you open to different things??? If not, maybe you should open up to new things. Trust me, trying out some of the stuff we see on those videos can be a lot of fun. Let yourself go just once. If you find it offensive, then hey walk away. But your husband is obviously getting something from those videos that he is not getting in your bedroom.
2006-09-14 09:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is, then he probably is. Can you do a search on your computer under "History" and find out?. The bad thing about this is that it is an addiction and it only grows worse over time if he doesn't stop. I know its probably not what you want to hear but confront him again (with some proof) and then give him an ultimatum. Dr Phil has some good info about this on his website so go there for more help. Good luck!
2006-09-14 06:51:35 · answer #3 · answered by mimi22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and dont get panicky! Dont confront as it is the worst way to stop any addiction. Give him enough attention and spend more time with him and love him as much as you can and in such a way that he doesnt have time to think of anything else. The less time you are away from him the more addictive he will be.
Most men love porn but it will lead to addiction only if they dont get enough practice. Practice makes a man perfect but if there is no experimenting facility what will he do but to gain more and more knowledge?? It may sound ridiculous to most women but its a man's thought!!
2006-09-14 07:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by jk s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hate to admit it but I kinda had the same problem. It developed from before I met my wife and I figured that once I got married and had sex regularly, it would go away. It didn't though.The website www.porn-free.org/ has a lot of good information on quitting that addiction.
I know it sounds cheesy but I really had to turn to god and pray to quit.
2006-09-14 06:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like the problem, he's ashamed to show you the stuff he likes. If you viewed the porn with him and shared and discussed it. it would be be no big deal and wouldn't be a problem. Surprise him bring home a x rated video tonight and ask him to waych it with you. You'll be surprised at the results.
2006-09-14 06:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make a big deal about it unless he's short changing you in the bedroom.If he is, then you have some serious issues,if not and he's taking care of all of your needs sexually then I wouldn't worry about it that much.I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-14 07:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-09-14 16:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my suggestion, and this is only going on an assumption....open up a little more about sex, explore with him and you may be surprised how the porn stays in just your bed :)
2006-09-14 06:48:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
There seem to be a lot of non-sexual reasons for porn addiction.
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2006-09-18 02:33:43 · answer #10 · answered by free download 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋