I didn't answer and he made so much noise neighbors called the police and now he's arrested! The police is asking if I wanna get him a lawyer, otherwise he's gonna be deported! I didn't know he's illegal here! Should I? If you don't remember my situation, read my previous question about him...omg!
2006-09-14 06:32:33 · 12 answers · asked by Fabulous, young and broke! 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Him getting deported is probably the best solution for you right now. Getting him a lawyer will only delay his deportation. While he's out of the country move to another address. And make sure that the neighbours don't know where you've gone, because he's likely to come back.
2006-09-14 08:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is Illegal getting a lawyer will probably not keep him from being deported, not to mention that in his eyes you would be CONDONING his actions. I'd honestly say that you have been presented an opportunity to be free of him once and for all, you should take it and not look back.
2006-09-14 08:35:47 · answer #2 · answered by IndyT- For Da Ben Dan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Tab H. You helped him and then he went back to that bad way of life. He dropped you. Find a man that will be good for you. Plenty of other Russian men besides him. You would help him and then he'd leave you for another junkie with open legs.
Also - check out some anti-cult sites. Not many good things are said about krishnas. I'd get them out of your life too. A good book to read on this is called Combatting Cult Mind Control by Steven Hassan.
My heart goes out to you bro. I'll put you in my prayers.
2006-09-14 06:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know dude, you either love him (waiting for him to return and cause your life grief) .. or you just need the extra stress in your life.
Ask yourself these two questions and then make up your mind once you've answered them truthfully.
1) What am I worth?
2) Why do I allow others to control me?
I'm sure you will be able to handle anything once you've completed this task.
Good luck sweety.
2006-09-14 07:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by bga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....stay away from Russians.
I once met a Russian guy at a bar and played a game of pool. The loser would by the winner a drink. In the process of playing, he spilt my drink (turned it over). He won the game and still insisted I buy him a gin and tonic. Luckily I was backed up by a coupla friends, so I went postal on the guy. hahahahah
2006-09-14 06:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by jaike 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember when we told you to drop him; we meant it. So what if he's deported, he made his bed now let him lye in it. Perhaps his drug addicted girlfriend can provide a lawyer for him. It's not your problem anymore.
2006-09-14 06:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Swordfish 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart drop that man, ignore his calls and pleas and allow him to be deported. Move on with your life and find a new guy who is legal.
2006-09-14 06:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask then you need help too....What would you tell a friend if he/she were in the situation?
2006-09-14 07:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE is a drama..with a Beginning, a Middle and in this case..NO END !!
2006-09-14 07:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you really do want to become a victim
2006-09-14 09:47:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋