Since my separation with him I talk to guys on the phone and yeah sometimes go on dates, Im trying to move on but when he ask that question I always wonder y is he asking. He went out of the marriage so why does he even bother.
2006-09-14 06:01:13 · 15 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well regardless of the soon to be ending of your marriage there will always be some type of feelings there... and jealousy may be a factor.
2006-09-14 06:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men have a need to control women. He wants to know all of your business because deep inside he still wants to control you and his knowledge of your personal life is a part of that control. He may also want to interfere with any new relationships you might have to get back at you because he is also very immature. He may still be wanting to punish you in some way for the divorce and or use anything you do during the divorce in court against you. You are still legally married until the divorce. If you have a relationship with a man while still legally married you have committed adultry and this can and will be used against you in a court of law. You are a woman remember that and you are not treated the same in court. If you have children and your are sleeping around with men while still married you could loose custody or rights to your children. Your soon to be ex might set you up. He may have a male person pose as an interested person towards you only to testify in court on his behalf about you. An ex husband is a very dangerous man especially if he is going to loose any of his possessions or have to pay you any amount of money including alimony and child support.
2006-09-14 13:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by lydia 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dreams last for so long even after your gone.
I have loved here for years don't know where I'd go now
he stopped loving her today they placed a wreath upon his door and soon they'll carry him away
and many other songs about this same Question
2006-09-14 13:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Though he's out of d marriage it doesn't mean he hates uand stops caring for your wellbeing. Is it possible he feeling guilty n is worried for u n wants to know that you're not making another mistake with another jerk whose going to end up hurting u more than you are already.
I mean, I maybe wrong but you should know his motives better than anybody else.
2006-09-14 13:14:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is jelous and maybe even feeling guilty about leaving but it is none of his buissness what you are doing now and you dont have to tell him a thing!!! GOOD for u for moving on!!!
2006-09-14 13:04:22 · answer #5 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him so what is your point want to know about me talking to a guy or guys on the phone and dating with someone.. since you have wanted out of marriage???
Tell him, that not my plm. do what ever you want to do because your life and my life. so there, because he is a dumb A@@ not knowing what he doing. he left you and now he started to have feelings foryou and want to know who to talk to.. Might think yoiu having sex with someone and use you in court saying that I never said I wanted Separation she cheating on me stuff like that.
Men like that are dog and not knowing that they F*** it up big time.
2006-09-14 13:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Feeling don't get switched off like a light switch.
His habit of watching out for you is still in place, and feelings about you getting together with someone else based on his previous feelings are still in place.
Have you lost any and all feelings about him? ;-)
IF you have, you never had any to start with!
2006-09-14 13:04:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sure he still loves you. Your marriage might not have worked out, but feelings just dont disappear.
2006-09-14 13:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He more than likely still loves you....and probably realizing that he may have made a mistake...
2006-09-14 13:56:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could it be that he is jealous and realize the mistake he made and wants you back
2006-09-14 13:30:05 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋