2006-09-14 05:44:07 · 20 answers · asked by labrat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
B/C there is the women on the other end who cheat with them. I was married for 13 years and never once cheated. Even at the end of our marriage. Oh but wait, she cheated. I threw her *** to the curb and got her for child support but b/c of the person I am I turned the child support down. If I had it to do all over again I would have took it b/c she is doing nothing she said she would and I would waste no more of my time in court. It will all come back on her later in life. For the people that says they stayed married b/c its cheaper, bullsh*t. I got mine done for $500 and that was cheaper than keeping her. People cheat b/c they dont love there partner, plan and simple. I mean why else would you cheat. If you loved them you wouldn't do anything to hurt them. The only person my ex hurt with all of this was my 2 kids but it will come back to her. She did me a favor. So dont think its just the men that cheat. They are some good ones out here!!!!!!!!!1
2006-09-14 05:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by bigdog_0032 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For probably the same reasons that the wive's who experience all of the pain and bs that these men put them through stay...They are afraid of change, money obligations, their spouse is too familiar and comfortable but provides a sense of security, children...in the cheater's case it could be because they do care on some level about their spouse and are just using the people they cheat with and vent out to as coping mechanisms to meet their own selfish emotional and physical needs...and/or perhaps they are just scumbags and like to have their cake and eat it too...
2006-09-14 12:54:27 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating Men/Women complain about their spouses in order for the affair to begin.. they use this for sympathy... you know the my husband/wife does not do this and they don't do that. It is all a bunch of CRAP! These cheaters know what they are doing and most of the time they are preying on a innocent person.... well for the most part innocent. Why they never leave is because deep down they are not that unhappy with their spouse and most likely love them. The side men/women are just being used.
2006-09-14 13:01:42 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is sacred and the men that are married realize this. They have a problem they need to work out with God that leads them to cheating but the severity of breaking a vow to God and his wife as obvious to the world as Divorce is always harder . by cheating he is hiding his issue from certain people and trying to deal with it in his own way that is never going to make things better. The best thing to do is to keep urself clean of the situation. It would only lead in pain. Married men are not an option, get out of the situation before you do to much damage to your perception of men in general and marriage.
2006-09-14 12:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Christal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have wives who allow them to cheat and get away with it - that's why. lol duh
(and yes...their wives know)
It's all about $$$$....both benefit more that way (most of the time) by staying IN the marriage...so they look the other way and live a miserable marriage to hang onto their dollars...and cheat on each other on the side.
(gee I sound a little burnt there don't I?...oops)
2006-09-14 12:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by svmainus 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want to have their cake and eat it too I guess.
I had a work colleague have an affair with a married man, he told her his wife was a psycho and yet he still went home to her every night and woke up beside her every morning.
He'd only complain about his wife behind her back - maybe that's how he justified his dog-like behaviour???
2006-09-14 12:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They complain to women so they can use our sympathetic side to weasel their way into our pants!! That is how they cheat and ya have to know the wife before putting blame on them!! He is usually the one to blame. Not always tho!!
2006-09-14 12:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are selfish **SHOLES!!! They have a good woman at home and they don't what anyone else to have her. They are so insecure that someone is going to take her away from them that they cheat to make themselves feel better. They think well I'm going to cheat on her before she can cheat on me. VERY IMMATURE!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 12:49:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple. One word: SECURITY. They know that you are in it for the long haul, and the people they sleep with on the side are not interested in long tern usually. IF they ever found that, its possible they would leave.
2006-09-14 12:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by FuzzyDice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are just fooling around. But most important thing is the children that they are not willing to leave.They can find another woman but they still loves their children.
2006-09-14 12:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by wan2knowhow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋