Im 21 years old and I know this sounds remeial but a year ago I had a fear of self masturbation. At the time my partner wasn't making "woopie" like i wanted to, so in a attempt to please myself i finally succeeded. The only problem is I like masturbating too much. So much that it takes away from daily life.... What should I do?
2006-09-14 05:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by DOAnderson 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Your fear kept you from doing this when you were about 15 to 16 years old. That is when most guys spend an inordinate amount of time doing it. You are just about 5 years late. It will take care of itself, when the "new wears off". Right now you are like a kid with a new toy; you just want to play with it all the time. Set yourself a schedule, like maybe once a morning and once a night, and stick to it. By having a schedule, you will look forward to your "times" in anticipation, and it won't keep interferring with your daily activities.
2006-09-14 08:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
If you would rather masturbate than have s e x with your partner, it could be a problem. Maybe you should talk to your partner about this issue. It is possible for you and your partner to come up with some sort of compromise about this. Maybe you could have your partner masturbate for you as a way of including the other person. I hope you come to a conclusion. Good luck!
2006-09-14 12:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to take control of your life and do other things then pulling yourself off ! ! Try joining a gym or getting some kind of hobby that will take your mind away from this.
It's all down to self control which im sure at 21 you should be able to do...Good luck
2006-09-14 13:30:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
How much is too much? Once a day is pretty normal. You are only 21. How is it affecting your life?
2006-09-14 15:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Seph7 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this preoccupation with masturbation may come to a screeching halt once you engage in partnered sex. there is so much more pleasure and adventure to be gained by having sex with a partner.
solo, it's only stroking up and down----it's over. with a partner, there's foreplay, oral sex, vaginal sex, oral sex, oral sex, and more oral sex. the variety adds super spice to the act.
masturbation is not an unacceptable practice, but you need to shy away from exclusively solo sex and move into the direction of sexual encounters with females.
talk with your g/f. maybe she's ready now to experience life's greatest gift.
2006-09-14 14:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just keep pumping away and like everything else, it will become boring. Oh, you will still like it but it will stop being the dominate pleasure in your life.
2006-09-14 12:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
"partner" Hummm.
Like "life partner" if so you have more problems than just jerking off.
if this is not the case than
All of us have had this problem when we were like 12
2006-09-14 12:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First we must define expression "Too much".
Too much is ONE MORE TIME than you want it.
Now, re-ask yourself a question: Do you masturbate too much?
2006-09-14 12:46:44 · answer #8 · answered by Emil Beli 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
" Onanism "
" Autoeroticism "
" Neurasthenia "
" Bonobo Monkey "
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bonobo
http://christianteens.about.com/cs/christianadvice/a/masturbation.htm
2006-09-14 13:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Erm. Busy yourself and your hands with other things?
2006-09-14 12:44:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋