Keep in mind this is the 4th time I took him back and says he has changed his ways what do u all think?
2006-09-14 05:25:57 · 24 answers · asked by missouri_horse_blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Plus I do love him but I dont Want to be hurt again. And There is probley no one out there who would want to be with me.
2006-09-14 05:34:46 · update #1
You know you shouldn't. Three tries is more than most women would allow.
I'm sorry to say, but cut him off, now and forever.
You'll be better off.
2006-09-14 05:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a truly unbiased opinion you, have to give more info. Most people will hit you with .. "once a dog, always a dog". That's not always true.
From what you've said, if this is the 4th time you've gotten back with him, there has to be something about him that you're drawn to. Provided you're not the type to dangle men on a string (some women like to do that), there is nothing you've said to suggest you shouldn't take him back. Did you break up with him for the same thing(s) as before?
To be objective, I'd say take a step back from a relationship and develop a solid friendship. Tell him you need some time to figure out what you want. Don't cut him off or treat him differently.. just put some space between you to see if his actions are the same.
2006-09-14 12:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by Honey 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you should respect yourself and put a stop to it. You are more valuable then what he make you think you are buy taking him back so many time. Just kick him the the curve. There are soooooo many fish out in the sea that you will find someone at will appreciates you and not someone who is playing around with you.
2006-09-14 12:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by lachina74 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heck no don't take him back!! He is not going to change his ways for you. He thinks since you have kept taking him back it is always going to be like that, and he can have you whenever he wants. Show him how it's gonna be and kick his butt to the curb. You need to go out and find someone that will treat you the way you feel like you should be treated, and don't take less than want you want!! Good Luck!!
2006-09-14 12:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its a good idea to get back with him. "Insanity" is defined as doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results. Sounds like you are on that train of insanity.
Let him go and take care of YOURSELF. Become the person YOU want to be and leave him to "change" on his own time.
2006-09-14 12:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how many times has he said that the last 4 times? Look this is what you have to think, why do you think now he has changed after breaking up with you so many times. THis is what he saw, some chick was digging him and he broke up with you to go out with her, and then she dumped him so now he has to have women so hes wanting to go back with you. YOu dont need that, you needa guy that will love you and be 100% all yours no one else. I dont think you should go back with him, Your deff. worth more then that
2006-09-14 12:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you already answered the question yourself when you said "keep in mind this is the 4th time" - dump him ~ there are so many guys out there you don't need someone like that!
2006-09-14 12:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ways did he need to change? And did he need to change these ways the other three times that you dropped him? You need to take inventory of your relationship with this man. If you allow him to go in and out of your life like that, then of he will take advantage of it. What do you think? Do you think he has changed? I think you should move on with your life. If you are meant to be together, then you will. If not, it was not meant to be. Pray for the strength that you need to do what God directs you to do. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-14 12:30:46 · answer #8 · answered by pampam50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is the 4th time, then NO. It's hard for people to change. You should just move on. Good luck.
2006-09-14 12:28:43 · answer #9 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4th time? U gotta be kidding me! At most I know some of my friends just gave up on the 2nd chance! Haha! Sheesh! All I can say is leave him for good. What much do you owe him anyway right? ;)
2006-09-14 12:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kniz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Words are of no value in this scenario-him "saying" does not make it so. Where is the action. Don't you feel foolish after four times. Didn't he "say" things the first three times that didn't pan out as being so. Listen to your gut, not his words!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 12:29:22 · answer #11 · answered by Salsa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋