2006-09-14 05:23:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In our forties. She says to go ahead and get it elsewhere but I question that.
2006-09-14 05:31:04 · update #1
Still very affectionate and love spending time together. In forties and she just wants to snuggle up and go to sleep. i'm working all the time but still have energy and desire. She says feel free to get it elsewhere she'll be here waiting!!
2006-09-14 05:36:42 · update #2
She really does not want you to do that. I know, I've said that before. You have to reassure her that you don't want anyone else, only her. And tell her that you don't mind to cuddle with her as long as you are with her that's all that matters. I know it's a bunch of crap, but she needs to know that you don't want it from someone else.
2006-09-14 06:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can be saved, but you have to work on your initmacy together, Sex just doesnt happen in Marraige its something that you have to work at all day. wake up in the mornign and give your loved one a kiss, or say I love you, write a note and leave it on tehre pillow or make breakfast. during work call them and tell I love you and am thinking about you, put a note in there briefcase or purse. when you get home, dont turn the TV on consitrate on each other, light some candles, a nice romantic dinner. make the bedroom nice looking not with cloths everywhere.
Go back to the time when you frist got married and why you first fell in love
it will come back, you just have to wokr on it.
2006-09-14 05:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie-- Because relationships should not be really based on sex. If you and him still love each other then it should work. Marriage is about more then just having sex it's about sharing experiences and smelling, touching that other person with affection. Sex is just a perk. And if you have grown sexually apart it's because the situation has become sexually boring... I don't know what else to tell ya.
Good Luck
2006-09-14 05:29:55 · answer #3 · answered by MIA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NO, unless both partners are not interested in sex at all (no matter what age they are) - it's like sister-brother relationships, or both have affairs (and it's not a secret) - so in this case I assume both partners do not want to divide family financial wealth, raising kids together and etc. But in real life usually at least one partner feels unhappy about a situation. From experience I understood that: if no healthy sex - no healthy and happy marriage.
2006-09-14 05:44:48 · answer #4 · answered by Loved 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is telling you to get it elsewhere it sounds like she is not open to the idea of sex with you any longer...that is rough. I think sex is a big part of any relationship, it really is like glue sometimes. You should be with someone who will meet you at least half way, you deserve to have a healthy relationship, as does she. Sex is a HUGE part of that, maybe y'all are better off as friends, and then you can both find what it is you're missing......good luck to you.
2006-09-14 05:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by Jo G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a lot of factors. Some would be how old each of you are, whether both of you agree to it, and if not, what both of your expectations are about seeking sexual satisfaction elsewhere. If the two of you can come together on all those points, it would probably work.
2006-09-14 05:28:55 · answer #6 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes... If you two love each other there should not be a problem go to sex therpy class and seek help and when you are married its not sex its making love
2006-09-14 05:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. But you both have to be willing to try new things in bed or in every day living.
2006-09-14 06:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by reba s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on my expereinces, no. Unless both partners are at an old age.
2006-09-14 05:26:13 · answer #9 · answered by groovyp63 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if there is communication in the marriage.
2006-09-14 05:29:34 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋