True or False? we never pay attention to something which is easily available..but we always look forward to get something which is far beyond our reach.....
2006-09-14 05:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by pink 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Very True...i think it is human nature. but because we are humans, and have that "consciousness", we need to be aware of that, and make an effort to "shift" what things seem on the surface, and logically figure out what actually IS true and good, and what is not.. for example, a lot of people see the negative things in their relationship and constantly look to the outside to find what they "think" they want... the man or woman u are with could be SO COMMITTED and LOVING, but instead of consciously Appreciating it and reinforcing them, they start thinking an attractive person somewhere else just might be better. so we don't actively pursue and award praise to what we *should*, we give praise to thinks that we *think* is better, but are not sure.... hope that makes sense.
that's why i think what we First must do is make sure that you, YOURSELF, meets up to the standards of what u are looking for in mate; attractive, confident, smart, responsible, trustworthy, caring etc etc; and THEN actively look for those qualities in a partner, and hold both of u up to those standards.... that way u are working to make the Relationship better, instead of constantly being disappointed and irresponsible with what you do have. good luck to us all!
2006-09-14 05:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is applicable to material wants only. Our needs can be satisfied but our wants are insatiable.Jealousy and greed are two overpowering emotions which create unhappiness.Once we understand this we will not crave for something which is beyond our physical reach. Our karma will give us what we deserve. We will get something more if we deserve. learn to think beyond single life span and all your questions would be answered.
2006-09-14 05:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by airwarrior 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only when you have the desire on certain things that you don't have, then you have the urge to gain them.
As for things that you have you take it for granted, that's just human being ignorant.
So, if you learn to appreciate what you have, accept the lost and appreciate the coming, your life will be balanced and full of happiness.
2006-09-14 05:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Nicko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is never satisfied with what he has and this unsatisfying nature urge him to get something which cannot be easily achieved.
2006-09-14 05:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it is night u wait for next morning, and u wait for the night to rest.... every day process, and u don't get tired of it
2006-09-14 05:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by pali@yahoo.com 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you always have to strive for someting or you will get bored
2006-09-14 05:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋