We've been seperated for five months after a four year relationship. I don't want my friends to think I totally dissed them, but at the same time I don't want my ex to think I'm going back for her. I'm stuck, and no matter which way I turn, I'll feel bad. If I move on without my old friends I'd feel worse, but if I go back, would I be setting myself for more torture, see I can be somewhat of a jealous type, although I'm really trying to let her go.
2006-09-14 05:10:12 · 6 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Also, She and I had alot of mutual friends. The ironic thing is that some of them are still both of our friends, but others are torn, as if they had choose which one of us to be friends with. I feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. No matter which way I go seems wrong, and staying here doesn't seem right either.
2006-09-14 05:24:59 · update #1
Yes. I do still have feelings for her. By the way.
2006-09-14 05:42:45 · update #2
Sure you should move back to your town where your friends live. But you have to be in control of yourself when you do. That means allowing your ex girlfriend to be an EX. Her life is hers and she can date whoever she want to. She won't think you're moving back there for her if you don't act that way. If you go back, hang out with your friends, and eventually find yourself a new girlfriend. Tell yourself that your ex girlfriend is a thing of the past. You'll get over it if you let time pass and if you make some new memories.
2006-09-14 05:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I live in a town that my ex lives in. I would occasionally see him around town. Do I wave? Do I look the other way? Do I flip him off? What do I do if I see him with a new girlfriend? Well, lucky me, he recently moved 7 miles away. So, the chances of me seeing him are slim. But when I did see him, it really wasn't as much as I had feared. My advice to you? Get over her! Live where you will be happy.
2006-09-14 12:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by whoanelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it wasn't too bad of a break-up and the two of you are able to see each other in passing without wanting to chop each other's heads off, there should be no problem. If you have friends there and you really like the town, don't let her keep you away. Just don't hang out in the same places that you know that she frequents and you should be fine.
2006-09-14 12:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by Nocturnal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it's over between u and ur ex than it shouldnt matter and it depends on it whether u move on or u still have feelings for her..!! cuz if u still have feeling for her than i know it's going to be hard to decide..but if u don't have any feeling for her, than go ahead and move...
2006-09-14 12:40:22 · answer #4 · answered by miss_xiong03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back and just find you a hot momma to enjoy your stay to forget about that ex
2006-09-14 12:16:36 · answer #5 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about your ex if she sees you she sees you.let her know that you didn't come back for her.friends are forever so go back.
2006-09-14 12:14:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋