2006-09-14 04:36:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
:) the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 10:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all depends on how shy you really are. If you're just a little shy, with some practice you should be able to get over it. If you're extremely shy and can't do any better no matter how hard you try, you probably have social phobia. The best thing to do for this is to see a doctor.
2006-09-14 17:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shyness is sweet so dont be ashamed of it, join some clubs or classes in things that interest you so you can meet people with similiar hobbies, Going out and doing stuff you are intersted in is a great boost to your self esteem. I am older now but when i was young i was very shy, i have gained confidence doing things i love and having faith in myself.
2006-09-14 11:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by ducky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you need not to be a not shy girl,it is nesseccory to be a little shy not to meet much troubles in your life
2006-09-14 11:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by nuca t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "hi" to a classmate or associate.
2006-09-14 11:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kaeru Shisho 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you need to get yourself an avatar so people can see you
2006-09-14 11:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by Jamieson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change lea G, dont ever change
2006-09-14 11:44:22 · answer #7 · answered by TheExile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jest BEING UR SELF and always believe on that u can do evrything that not all people can do it as well as u....
2006-09-14 11:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by Miki Yatanama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be someone you admire, and take their courage and use it.
2006-09-14 11:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shag all things legal and get a name for yourself
2006-09-14 11:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by sweatyhelmet 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋