This girl i know, were best freinds, she said she loves me but shes not IN love with me. I cant get rid of the feeling that she does like me. She said i wasnt her type but i dont know if she was just saying that or if she really meant it. I cant get the courage to ask her out.
2006-09-14 04:33:23 · 18 answers · asked by pot_smoker4567 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I forgot to add that she made out with someone right in front of me like iwasnt even there.That reall really hurt my feelings.
2006-09-14 04:38:36 · update #1
Well get some courage...that's the only way you'll find out. I love my guy friends. I care about them but, I'm not in love with them meaning I don't want to date them. I think that's what she's trying to say. She cares for you but she doesn't want to be with you. She sounds pretty cold and unfeeling towards your feelings. Why would you ask her out if she was kissing some other guy. Please...move on. You can be friends but leave it at that. Get a hot mama and flaunt her infront of her and give her a taste of what it's like.
2006-09-14 04:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she was trying to make you jealous by making out with this other guy, I think if you are Best Friends, you would be her type, even opposites attract, give it some time and try to find that courage you need to ask her out, are you willing to accept the consequences though, if this puts a strain on the Friendship, but It doesn't sound like you have anything to worry about.
Sometimes, girls use that "In Love" thing to protect themselves, keep showing her that you are to be a trusted Friend, no matter what.
Good luck.
2006-09-16 00:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The message she 's giving you is loud and clear
that she's not in love with you. Do you need for her to spell it out ? The reason she gave you is that you're not her type. That could not be further from the truth. She loves you like a friend or probably a brother but that's all; not in a sexual way at all. Especially if she made out with somebody in front of you to taunt you. The audacity and the gall of her. And of course, your vulnerability to just stand there and take it. You should have left the scene at the very start. And you still want to ask her out? Are you a masochist? You know what? She doesn't deserve you at all. There are a lot of girls with better decorum around.
2006-09-14 05:48:04 · answer #3 · answered by rosieC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It means your best friends! Come on! If she makes the distinction between love and in love it means she only thinks of you as a friend. That's not a bad thing really! I mean best friends rock. Your way lucky to have one that your not romantically involved with. But you know if your instinct tells you she's into you then go for it. Everyone on here could be wrong. Do what will help you out best. If you just need to hear it from her, it's OK. If you guys really are best friends it won't hurt your relationship if you just ask her about her feelings....
2006-09-14 08:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls usually have very deep feelings for their "guy" "friends" much different than the feelings they have for their "boyfriends."
If she says she isn't interested than more than likely she's not. She looks at you like she said as a best friend, she loves you as a friend would not as a girlfriend does. Hear her when she talks, listen carefully when she speaks & no feelings will get hurt.
Sometimes it's nice to have someone just as a friend because it'll last forever.
Would you want to throw your friendship away for the chance to date her for 2 weeks.
2006-09-14 04:38:47 · answer #5 · answered by paintressa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, this tells me that she loves you as a friend only and will always be as a friend only. Move on to someone who would respect you more than making out in front of you.
2006-09-14 07:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop smoking pot and you'll get a lot more great girls. Girls who'll respect your feelings so they're not making out with someone in front of you, knowing that you like them. I know it's hard to quit that garbage, but it will change the course of your life for the better. It may not become perfect overnight, but you sound too nice and sensitive to be depressing your mind with that $***
2006-09-14 04:43:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is possible to "love" someone but not be "in love" meaning as a lover so to speak. You can love friends, colleages, co-workers and such but never be attracted to them physically. Ask her out though if you feel others wise. It never hurts to ask. Have confidence and self-esteem and always be yourself. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-14 04:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she loves you as a friend, a really good friend. If i were u i would wait for further signs to ask her out before i put the friendship on the line!!!
2006-09-14 04:37:07 · answer #9 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u didnt say how old is she or how old you are if she`s young i mean very young so maybe she saw sth on another boy that u dont have (about way u talk to her,behavior,...)or maybe u did sth that she didnt like that ,were ur behaviou difrent befor and after she said that she loved you?
2006-09-16 00:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋