A problem I had while dating is that I've done alot of things (NOT sexually) and I think some men were intimidated by this....is that really possilble???? The hobbies I had were mostly things guys would do, is that a real bad turn off????
2006-09-14 04:28:43 · 8 answers · asked by RainaDeLaSol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You will find someone just for you that shares most of your interests, be patient.
2006-09-14 04:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys are into "girly girls" , yet many are attracted to strong women with similar interests. It sounds like the guys you have been seeing are not intrigued with your hobbies. One will come along though , have no fear. You just can't be in a hurry.
Personally , I'm attracted to self confident ladies, ones who are satisfied with their own sexuality and aren't ashamed of being a little aggressive. Many men find that a turn of though, and feel as though THEY need to be the leader in all things.
Be yourself, be open, and don't be afraid if you like a guy and the moment is right to reach down take a hold of him, and say " I could use some of this".
2006-09-14 11:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Some guys like the tomboys. They like girls that are into sports and fixing cars. Makes sense, I guess, since you want someone with common interests to be with. Nothing wrong with a girl that enjoys a monster truck show or spending hours at the electronics store with me. That's the friendship part. But as far as the affection goes, I like a woman that dresses, smells and acts like a woman. If I wanted to marry a guy, there are plenty of my male buddies that make a better choice :)
And another thing, even if you know more baseball stats than he does or are better at changing a flat tire or can drink more beer than he can, don't let me know that!! Make him feel like less of a man and he's not going to stick around for long.
2006-09-14 11:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by roobs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's the problem. Most men I know would not find that intimidating or a turn off. Might want to search other aspects of yourself to find out the problem.
2006-09-14 11:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strong women are sexy as hell.
Confident inside and out can't be beat.
And I love nothing better than seeing a Latina mad.
They show so much passion and heat when making a point
it also transfers over to dancing and love making.
My wife knows this, so she claims I make her mad just to enjoy her her features.
She might be right.
2006-09-14 11:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just blew their minds........ thats all. Your a real Tom Boy and that just shook them alittle. Didn't know if they were to be your friend or if it could be more.
2006-09-14 12:06:50 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by being honest to herself will qualifies all
2006-09-14 11:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by the black crab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i go for personality...
what stuff have you done and what are your hobbies???
2006-09-14 11:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋