around boys i dont look at them straight im always looking at the floor or something also i have a big spot in between my eyes so its making my confidence go away any help?
2006-09-14 04:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
:) the more u work on urself, the better u will feel. *trust me*.
so having said that, work on:
1) your appearance: work out. exercise. take care of ur body. take care of ur skin. get new haircut. try on new clothes. buy Flattering, stylish clothes, make u feel good and look good.
2) your mind: study. read more. learn more about current events. find a hobby, and excel at it. the more u KNOW, the easier it will be for you to develop your own ways of thinking, as well as be able to TALK w/ others about it.
3) your relationships: as u build ur confidence in urself, and keep in mind to be Open Minded, Non Judgemental to others..... u will be able to speak out more, talk to ur friends, family members, practice talking about anything and everything u are learning, or find out what they are interested in. the more u practice, the easier it will be for u to do that with Strangers, or friends of friends, and not feel as shy...because remember, 1 & 2, u are already working on ur appearance and your brain, so u don't have as much to be "scared" about.
:) good luck...the more Positive attitude u have (remember, u can Always change something if u make a mistake, u can learn from it, u can always grow, and do something different tomorrow), the more opportunity u will have in ur life. confidence will lead to easier job interviews, class discussions, making friends, getting to know teachers, etc etc.... huge impact on ur life. but getting over ur shyness is the first step, and working on ur confidence will help u become less shy.
2006-09-15 10:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are self confident about that spot then they will notice just by the way you won't look at them: Guys tend to wonder why you don't look. So raise your head proud and keep a glimmer of a smile on your face. I'm sure there are other things about you that will deter their eyes away from the spot that is so noticeable to you.
I have always been shy toward guys...No Lie! I found that it was a defense mechanism toward the ones I truelly did not want near me. You never know...If a guy really wants to say hi to you despite your shyness give him a chance he just may be truelly all about you.....
2006-09-14 11:29:43 · answer #2 · answered by Winter D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any brothers or any boys that you know as close friends you can talk to??? If so, practice by talking to them as you would want to talk to other boys. If you like a particular boy, try and find out some of the things he likes.......like sports for example. You will find it much easier to talk to a boy if you can talk about things he likes!
Good luck
2006-09-14 11:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to use makeup, and learn to bellydance.
The first will help camouflage the spot; the second will help you feel more comfortable in your body, whether you ever take the stage or not. It's worked a treat for me.
2006-09-14 11:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the dumb me thinks that big spot is ur iris. Dont worry every 1 has an iris. All u can do is accept urself as u are
2006-09-14 11:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by vio_prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you get that way around girls?
you should just treat everyone equally, don't think that the boys are any better than the girls that you talk to, so you shouldn't be shy talking to them.
2006-09-14 11:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by sprinkles_star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking to other people that you aren't attracted to and learn from it... it is a form of anxiety... try telling yourself "what is the worst that could happen"... try tapping your wrist with a finger to see if it helps to stop these feelings... look them straight in the eye and wink... :D
2006-09-14 11:26:04 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you wait to talk to "boyz" and try it again once you have gained some maturity.
2006-09-14 11:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by SJohnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If a boy likes you he will like you regardless of what you have between your eyes..........
2006-09-14 11:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by miss_lady6980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn;t be shy
2006-09-14 11:24:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋