I need the ladies help on this!?

Question

Good Morning Ladies! I have a question about woman's intuition. Do you believe that you get a feeling about your man doing something behind your back? Because lately I have been getting a feeling that something is just not right with me and my man and last night I had a dream that was crazy that made me feel that something is definatly going on! I'm not naive or stupid so I wanna know should I follow what I am feeling? Or don't jump to conclusion even though I feel this way?

Answer 1

ur dream came because of ur thoughts ur thinkin a lot about that bad thing that u think its happening the best thing is to tell ur man about it or give it more time n the days will make everything clear for u

Answer 2

Womans intuition is very real. I experience it, and when I do I start keeping my eyes wide open. Don't bother making accusations, you will just get lies. Keep quiet and start checking on him. Act like everything is fine, and if you do find out he is sneaking around, or lieing to you, don't blow up, keep your information and keep checking until you have enough information to confront him. It may not even be another woman, men hide the way they spend their money, or he may be doing other things that you do not approve of. The last time my intuition kicked in that something wasn't right, I found out that my boyfriend bought a third vehicle which was not needed (he parked it on his gramps property). This is a fixer upper 4 wheel drive tracker that he got to go out 4-wheeling with the guys. That would be fine if he didn't already have 2 other vehicles. So it isn't always that he is cheating, but you can bet he is up to something.

Answer 3

I would say follow ask first if you have that feeling you may know more about how he answers you if he is lying or not. Your intuition usually isnt wrong but sometimes you can get stressed from something so little and have dreams that are really bad and it just adds to everything. You dont want to start something with your man but you should know him enough if you have been with him for a long time whether he is telling you a lie. Good luck with it.

Answer 4

I've found out a long time ago that if I'm getting a odd feeling, it's for a reason.

Use that as a starting point, now look for clues to back up that gut hunch. This is where you get to play armchair detective. But don't lower any "boom" until you're 100% sure of your "facts" also. And if you have proof, hard copy proof, that's even better.

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They also have programs that can be downloaded to secretly check out where where significant other, or kids for that matter, go on the net. Employers use this too. I think I found them searching for an internet blocker for my 11 year old while he uses my computer. I was looking for a kid's internet browser. Just search for internet and go from there. Find one that hides itself so no one but you knows its there, that is if he uses your computer. It may or may not help.

Answer 5

Always follow your gut! But, don't jump to conclusion. Keep your eyes and ears open and you'll figure it out! If you can't sit your man down and tell him your gut tells you something is wrong and ask him whats going on. Your a smart women, intuition tells us alot of things, if we would just listen.

Answer 6

your intuition is for your protection. so ,listen to it and start looking for proof that somethings going on. I would not confront him based only on your intuition. you need proof. check his cell phone call log. email , if you know the password. sniff his clothes when he comes in at odd hours not normal for him. search the car and pockets. you get it right. Or , you could be insecure and paranoid. That's why it is so important to find some proof before you go on any more with this feeling. It'll drive you crazy.

Answer 7

it is not right to jump to conclusions because if your man is up to no good, it will all fall in his face sooner ot later. if you accuse him on something and you have no real facts, then he is going to be more careful on what he is doing. My advice to you is, do not let him know that you have a feeling on some Sh!@. Gather up your facts so when and if he is up to know good you will have proof and facts plus your woman intuion. Just like in court. he is innocent untill proven guilty. if you love him with all of your heart and you have been good to him and God knows that, then the proof is right around the corner. That way when you dump his butt to the curve you won't feel guilty

Answer 8

Go with your gut feeling. 9 times out of 10 you are always right. Do a little investigating first before you start excusing. You don't want to look like a fool in the end.

Answer 9

Well, I wouldnt' call it intuition, but I'd call it being smarter then THEY are...women are more in tune with what's going on around them then men are.

If you really are having that 'feeling' I would suggest you ask him outright. You SHOULD know him well enough to know if he's lying to you, or not. A shuffling of his feet, his eyes averting yours, that kind of thing. You might be surprised and what you think is going on isn't what you think at all...he might be having those very thoughts about YOU...

Answer 10

That "gut feeling" you have is there for a reason...It may not be that he's cheating, but something is up that could have nothing to do with your man. Women were blessed with this "intuition" so you should listen to it. (dont' jumpt to any conclusions though) And definitely don't act your emotions.

Answer 11

YES I BELIEVE IT!!! That happened to me recently and let me tell you I'm glad I went with my intuition because the bastard was cheating behind my back all along!!! Also, you get this weird feeling in your stomach, or at least I did everytime I spoke to him because I knew deep down something was not right!!! It wouldn't hurt to ask him...