We were friends since 5th grade now in 7th. We dont talk a lot. What do I do. I wabnna start a conversation but i dont want it to be awkward. Help!!!!
2006-09-14 03:57:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And no smart allic remarks. Thanks.
2006-09-14 04:00:52 · update #1
Try after skool or something it's less trouble ;)
2006-09-14 04:08:34 · answer #1 · answered by 4eva-pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Class is not the best place to talk. Everyone around will notice that you are talking simply because you are not supposed to be. you may even get really embarassed if the teacher notices and calls you on it that would be worse. Think ahead of a few subjects that you may have the same interests in and be prepared to talk about them if the opportunity arises. What about lunchtime. Use any excuse to have the opportunity to talk to him. If he is standing by the vending machine for instance, go over there to buy something, smile at him that always says your friendly. This also gives you the opportunity to say hi just because he's standing there not because you have a crush. Use his name when you speak to him. Psychology always says that people love to hear their own name and it is a strong flirting technique. You could use it before class as well and bye ----. Smiling will attract him to want to talk to you and then it's easy from there. Good lucka nd have fun.
2006-09-14 04:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by belle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a day when the teacher is showing you guys something new turn around and ask him if he knows what the teacher is talking about (as if you don't) when he says yes, just turn back around and write on a little piece of paper "please write me after school" then put your e-mail address underneath that. This way if he writes you'll know he likes you and you can start asking if he has a girlfriend etc.. and if he doesn't write you'll know he's not interested. Otherwise you can ask him right after class if he's gonna write? Everyone will think it's about the subject you're learning and you can bail out of an embarassing situation by stating so if asked. Hope this helps.
2006-09-14 04:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, ask him to help you with your homework after school. Either at your home or at a coffee shop, diner or some place like that. Non-committal, but gets you two close together, then Gage his reaction when you are alone together
2006-09-14 04:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by rehobothbeachgui 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try this. Start getting off your mind that he is your crush. Talk to him like you talk to your siblings, friends, best friend, cousin or the Wal-Mart greeter. In short, be as NATURAL as you can be. Ask him about his stuff - where he bought his iPod, does he go for Kobe or Dwyane Wade, the new site to download music from, or even get his opinion which girl cologne irritates him or appeals to him. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL BE NATURAL.BE NATURAL.BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL.BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. BE NATURAL. Don't be in a rush to initiate the exchange of phone numbers, email etc. Don't be a trying-hard.
2006-09-14 04:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Hunk J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him before or after class. Ask him about an assignment or another school question.
2006-09-14 04:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just talk..if you are friends it should not be an issue. You guys are 12..think about your school work.
2006-09-14 04:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by KathyS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what the homework was after class.
2006-09-14 04:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Neelam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write notes on the back of your neck
2006-09-14 04:00:06 · answer #9 · answered by Norman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hah... I'm in the same situation.
2006-09-14 05:42:02 · answer #10 · answered by fotzelovesthommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋