I suffer from severe depression. Like a lot of young twenty year old males I just cant handle it anymore. Yeah I have a good job and workout every day and the girls love me, but I know that should be enough, but I find myself debating wether I should just end it all today all the time. They only thing that gets me through each day is my music.
2006-09-14 03:48:07 · 9 answers · asked by mikec1452001 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Other - General Health Care
Why haven't you seen a Dr.? There are many effective treatments for depression but it is up to you to seek therapy and help. You could feel much better if you do what you need to do.
2006-09-14 03:52:14 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am also depressed. It is a challange but you have got to keep going. Try to understand why you are not happy. You don't want to end your life, you probably want to change it, and that is a big difference. Think of what your life would be like if you could be happy, and I'm not talking about being a celebrity or something. you mentioned music. Well if you were a rock star why would that make you happy? Because you'd feel important, respected, you'd have an exciting life? What ways could you feel that way without necessarily being famous? You say girls love you. Well maybe you are more the type to be with one girl, not girls. Go to a doctor, medications can help a great deal. I hope this helps you.
2006-09-14 11:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rhianna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mike
There must be something else bothering you. There is no reason to end anything! You are a special person and needed in this world! Music is awesome, isnt it? It helps with dealing with feelings, etc. I listen to different kinds of music, depending on what kind of mood I am in.
You arent on any kind of antidepressants are you? They will have that kind of effect. You shouldnt take them, if you are.
I wish I could say more for you. Just try and deal with each day one at a time. Try to locate the reason you are feeling this way and take it from there. There is no reason to end your life. I am sure you are very loved by many people! Good luck sweetie
2006-09-14 10:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I get depressed I think about my cousin. She has Lupus and lived with it for over 20 years. She never complained and always had a smile on her face and a good work for everyone. When I compare my problems with hers I see how lucky I am. I also have this philosophy: If this is the worse thing that has happened to me and I compare it the the rest of the world then I am pretty lucky. That thought always makes me feel better. Getting involved in a church, club, or community work (especially working with children) helps you see that you are needed and loved. (please don't listen to sad music, it will only make it worse) Music is great, but make sure it is upbeat and positive.
2006-09-14 11:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by vbryant52 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your depression has nothing to do with your circumstances and how well your life is going. It is a chemical imbalance in your brain. This can now be proven thru various tests. You need to see a doctor so he can put you on antidepressant medication. I went thru this about 10 years ago and my only regret was waiting so long to get on the medication. It saved my life. There are wonderful meds out there with no side effects. Please consult your doctor regarding the medication.
2006-09-14 10:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been were you are. go see a doctor med will help. I suffered for 40 years with it. they have meds to day that do work. I feel great to day and am finely enjoying life. Go see the DOCTOR
2006-09-14 11:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by norsmen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your life was meant to be heaven. Now I have a secret for you: http://youtube.com/watch?v=csiAsbPxmmY If you also feel and believe that your life was meant to be heaven, It will happen. It's a law of the universe. If you're interested more in the secret go to www.thesecret.tv
2006-09-14 10:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get professional help. Depression is a very serious condition. Feelings like those are not normal.
2006-09-14 11:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by heaven o 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please see a doc. . you probabley need med. to level you out. ending it would hurt all the loved ones you would leave behind-forever!!!!
2006-09-14 10:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋