i would like to the know why the person u love so much and did avery thing for can hurt u so much
2006-09-14 02:50:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Becuz you love that person more then he love you. As long as you keep doing everything for him he is going to keep you around. A lot of people are looking for the mother type. You need to get out and move on. There is someone out there that will love you the way you deserve to be.
2006-09-14 02:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I wish I had the answer. You should listen to the song "Ain't Really Love my Mary J. Bige it goes like this:
Ain't Really Love
Yeah yeah yeah yeah
Yeah yeah yeah yeah
Everyday I'm trying to get to know ya
But more and more you're changing up your act
Everyday I look for ways to bring us closer
But more and more you appear to be drawing back
And lately when We're making love its getting weaker
My heart don't feeling it and feeling is everything
And I'm feeling like maybe you just don't feel it
And I don't know how to play it
In the past, didn't know how to say it
But I...
[CHORUS]
I held my tongue too long
I can't do it no more (I just can't do it babe)
See how can a man be so cold
To a woman that loves him most (I don't get it at all)
(But if you wanna go) There's the door
(I can't hold ya) Boy you're grown
(You must got me confused) Ooooooo
(I treat myself way too good)
And a love that tears you down ain't really love
Everyday I'm getting up and making breakfast
And more and more you're walking in without a word
And everyday I'm trying to ask, "Baby what's wrong?"
And more and more you say I'm getting on your nerves
And then you take me to the level of some bullshit
Ya said ya never had these problems from a white chic
You got me twisted and twisted is just not how I get with it
You need to sit down and hear it
Ohh...
[CHORUS]
I'm pouring out my heart (my heart)
Don't just sit there while my heart is on the line
Speak your truth (speak your truth)
What it's worth (what it's worth)
Not a word you say will go unheard
Now if it's like that
Then baby just pack your bags
Cause I'm sick and tired of fighting
I'm sick and tired of trying
I had enough of waiting
I'm not that good with playing
I know I love you
But I love myself too
[CHORUS x2]
2006-09-14 10:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by bre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that question have an answer, we put ourselves in a position to change and accept a person for who they are and they realize that they have someone good on they side and think we have to accept them for everything they do but there's always a chance we don't and you can only go through so much before you realize that you're being played.they know ain't nobody going to put up with they mess so do they that to keep you. And we do everything in our power to make sure that they are first priority and still can't winn for losing. then it time to move on. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-14 10:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by sexychocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is love sweety. It can make you feel the worst at times and the best. I had the same thing happen to me a few years back. I guess people grow apart and change. Good Luck!
2006-09-14 09:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sure he or she didnt mean to it just happen even between a mother n daughter or father n sun they also hurt each others without noticing that we r all like that but it hurts u because ur askin what did i do wrong ? u did nothing life did so let it go n ull forget it n he or she will regret it hope everything will b fixed up n u take it easy
2006-09-14 09:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your talking about that you two have a close relationship then fighting is part of getting to know each other and working things out. and I know if i don't love someone I don't care as much of what they do or say than if it was someone i loved because if it is someone i love i feel more emotional about them.
2006-09-14 10:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the people we love the most that are able to hurt us the most. This is because we open up ourselves to this person, we become vulnerable and allow this person to know us, really know us. We give our heart to this person, and since they have our heart they are able to break it into a million pieces.
2006-09-14 10:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we teach people how to treat us. as cleechae as that may sound, alot of times we are in love with the idea of being in love, therefore we see alot more in the person we chose than there really is. is it fair, No is it right No. will the pain go away sometimes
2006-09-14 09:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by debbie m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when you do anything for someone it is really easy for the person you love to take advantage of you. its like when you have sex with because you love them and they don't use a condom. if you get pregnant and you tell them there is a big chance that they will break up with you because they don't want to deal with taking care of a baby. they rather act like idiots and tell their friends that they got someone pregnant and step up and deal with what they have done.
2006-09-14 10:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See dear, The only person who can hurt you is one who is close to you and the closest the worst hit! We do not expect our loved ones to hurt us in normal circumstances.. so when we get hurt by them its a big shock for us and it hurts the most.. coz they are close to our heart.. and anything close to your heart.. when gets hurt it gives you tremendous pain!!
2006-09-14 10:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋