I should have stated.....we have been trying since i miscarried! (sorry folks)
I lost my first when i was nearly 5 months. Devastating yeah i know, that was way back in March its now September and still no luck. I went into hosiptal 3 days b4 the miscarriage as i believe my waters had broken, they hosip[tal told me when i was examined later that day, that they could see nothing and everything seemed fine. Baby was still there and heart was beating. Three days later i went into labour and miscarried the next day. Post mortem was carried out, with no reason for this happening. Doctors say they may need to put a stitch in the next time i have a pregnacy. Any ideas? Please dont tell me to just wait....im looking for couples, doctors and expert opinions
2006-09-14 02:39:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
i work in maternity and losing a baby at 5 months is devistating and it being your first baby the doctors would not have know it was going to happen. the cervical suture that they are talking about (stitch) is a very good idea. it does have risks but it helps many people carry a baby to full term. its good that you are trying for a baby and it can be frustrating that u havent fallen but u will in time. good luck and all the best!!!
2006-09-14 02:44:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are telling you your cervix is not strong enough to hold the baby, that's why they want to put a stitch in, to try and "hold" everything in better.
I'm so sorry. I had the same thing happen to me but I was only 10 weeks. I started bleeding, went to the hospital, and they said my cervix wasn't open, and it was "up to God". What a thing to tell someone who is scared out of their mind! 2 days later I miscarried.
Your chances are good you will carry your next child to term. the doctors will monitor you very closely, tho. just take it easy (easier said than done), and it will happen.
2006-09-14 02:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me a year and half to get pregnant again after my miscarraige. After I stopped trying it happened. Sorry for your loss. When the time is right for you it will happen again. Just make sure to tell the dr about needing to get a stitch in your cervix as soon as you go to your first apoint when you do find out you are pregnant. Good luck to you.
2006-09-14 02:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by shorty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN YOU'RE BODY IS GOOD AND READY. DON'T FORGET YOU NEED TIME TO RECOVER AND ALLOW YOUR BODY TIME TO SORT ITSELF OUT. I MISCARRIED MANY YEARS AGO AND I HAD THE CRAVINGS LIKE YOU. IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT OR WHEN YOU GIVE UP (LIKE IN MY CASE). GOOD LUCK AND I HOPE YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT TOO LONG.
i KNOW IT'S NO CONSOLATION TO YOU BUT MOST WOMEN MISCARRY THE FIRST PREGNANCY AND GO ON TO HAVE HEALTHY BABIES LATER ON. ALSO THE STITCH IS TO STRENGTHEN YOUR CERVIX SO THAT THERE IS LESS CHANCE OF THIS HAPPENING NEXT TIME.
2006-09-14 04:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by TONI B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as quickly as I found out i became pregnant, i became almost 5 weeks, and became having what i assumed to be implantation bleeding. nicely, the bleeding lasted for 8 days, and that i additionally had cramping on and rancid! i became fairly worried, as i'm particular you're, yet my surgeon informed me to not challenge yet... my bleeding became the two purple or brown in colour minus one time it became purple. It not at all have been given heavier, and the discomfort not at all have been given above mild/average, which the medical doctors considered a solid sign! finally the two the recognizing and cramping went away, and that i'm now 13 weeks with a healthful being pregnant! i in my view desire the comparable occurs for you! i might evaluate it a solid sign that your hcg stages are nevertheless increasing... i'm undecided with regard to the clots, as that's one ingredient I not at all quite had.... yet merely attempt to take it person-friendly and not strenuate your self! i does not have intercourse the two.. (issues my rfile informed me!) in case you start to have severe cramping, and your bleeding will become vivid purple and gets heavier... see your surgeon right this moment! different than that attempt to stay useful! terrific of success!
2016-10-14 23:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you had to go through this-i myself had 6 miscarriages.they talked about the stitch thing with me but never did -instead the looked at my proesterone hormone and noticed it was out of wack-well best of luck i hope this happens for you
2006-09-14 02:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by cwgrlmeiniowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So very, very sorry to hear about the lost of your child. Thought that this would bring you some comfort, when you are ready to view it. It's quite powerful and beautiful.
"I Spoke With My Child"
http://www.ispokewithmychild.com
2006-09-19 09:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by maximumreferrals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iam really sorry to ehar this obvioulsy it is very upsetting the only thing i cansuggest is profeesional help and counseilling to get over this it is very hard and may be go back toyourt gp and have achat.
2006-09-14 04:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may sound harsh but stop 'trying' and just keep practising and it will happen as you will be more relaxed and not just doing it for the outcome, have four kids, just lost my fith at 30weeks so can relate slightly there
2006-09-14 05:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by dizzydogblack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still say the same as before, please see your doctor to put your mind at rest.
Best wishes.
2006-09-14 02:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Happy. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋