Anyone that has gone threw this help me pass threw it ~ im about to give up ~?

Question

Im Pregnat... and my boyfriend has left me qithout no reason .... he is no one to call me and see how im doing .. im doing really bad and sick ... My morning sickness is CRASY i cry every morning my emotions are reckless... all i want is to fix things with him but then i didnt do nothing why do i have to be suffering !!! how can i get him out of my head i dont eat, sleep .. think o fhim constaltny 24-7 and its killing me phsically and emootinally ... What can i do ~

Answer 1

I am sorry to be so blunt, I understand that you are heartbroken and all... but GET OVER IT...

Believe it or not, the baby can feel your distress...

And just because the father has left does not free you of your obligations as a mother...

You have to take care of yourself for the life that is growing inside of you... you need to eat correctly, sleep/rest, and do the things you need to do to bring a healthy, happy child into this world... Please... think of your child and be good to your body...

Now is the time for you to be strong...

If the morning sickness and depression (hormones) get to be too much, go talk to your doctor. Explain to him/her the situation and perhaps there is something they can give you to ease the pregnancy symptoms. Perhaps you should also think about staying with a good friend or a family member until you are feeling better...

Keep your chin up! You can make it through this... You are not the first woman (nor the last) that has had some stupid man run out on them and their child.

Concentrate on your baby for now, for your baby is counting on you...

:)
God Bless...
T.

Answer 2

GROW UP! I understand that you are hurting both physically and emotionally, but you have bigger issues than your boyfriend. You are about to become a mother, you must put your feelings aside for what is best for your baby, and if you think that wallowing in your misery over a guy is good for your baby then you are SO wrong. How about everytime you begin to think of the louse that left you in one of your worst times of need, you focus on your baby. Think about what he/she will look like, what they will do when they are grown, about how you are gonna feel when they smile at you the first time, or say mommy to you, or crawl or walk. There are so many positives that you can focus on, instead of just thinking about a guy who isn't worth all the time you are wasting on him.
Maybe one day he will wake up and realize what a huge mistake he made when he left you and your child, but do you really think that you can take the time to wait for that day to happen? NO you can't, you must prepare to raise this baby on your own, because the baby's father doesn't sound like someone that you can count on.
Go take the steps that you need to take to make sure that he atleast pays child support, and don't let him tell you that he will do it on his own, that you don't need to go through the state to get it done, you wont see any money. And also get used to the idea that this man will be a infrequent visitor in your childs life if he comes around at all. You can't make someone be a parent. You can't make him go to ball games, or practices, or school programs or anything. You are pretty much on your own, and there is no easy fix to make it go away, make you feel better or make him realize he's an ***.

Answer 3

The first thing you have to think about is the fact that you are carrying a baby inside of you. I understand your depression, but that baby doesn't deserve to be punished for a stupid mistake his daddy made. You need to be doing what is best for that baby right now. So he didn't give you a reason, that just goes to show how scared he is of the situation. Trust me, the situation may be bad right now, but it could be worse and it might if you don't take care of yourself. You have to eat and you have to get your rest for the sake of that child. Don't think of it as you suffering, think of it as he did you a favor by not putting you through months and months of bickering and arguing and hey- you get to raise this baby how you want to and you don't have to have anybody's approval! Do yourself a favor and do what is right for that child: go to the kitchen and get yourself a big bowl of whatever and eat it all. I promise you will feel lots better and you won't be half as worried as you have been. depressed, maybe, but at least you won't feel like crying.

Answer 4

Your emotions and your hormones are all over the place. Time will heal, you will get over this, you have a new life inside you who needs you, try to focus on your unborn child. Do you have any close friends or family, go to them talk to them, tell them how you feel. You need to start to think about yourself and not that looser b/f who left you in such a bad situation. Try to eat healthy for the sake of your child and build up your strength, remember there are lots of people out there who care about you. I wish you well good luck.

Answer 5

You have a life inside you now. It's time to care for that now. I know it's hard to lose someone you love, but imagine losing this baby if you don't take care of yourself. You dont NEED your boyfriend, but this little life NEEDS for you to take care of it. You are going to be very emotional and sick... your pregnant! I was sick up untill my thrid month, but now I'm seven months and the felling of my little girl kicking puts the biggest smile on my face. It's hard at first, and even harded that your boyfriend is the way he is. Maybe he will come around, maybe he is scared and needs time. Im sure this wasn't a planned pregnacy. But take it day by day. Take care of yourself and your baby! Good Luck and if you have any questions please email me at [e-mail]

Answer 6

I know it sounds typical...but TIME does heal. My baby's father did the same to me over 3 months ago...I was 6 months pregnant and we were living together. He knew from the very begenning I was pregnant yet he still left me 5 months later. Let me tell you that I was in your shoes and feeling exactly the same. I felt like my world had ended. THEN...I got pissed. Anger set in and it is still there. Just like you, he doesn't call to ask how I'm doing, nothing.....I suggest you take this time to focus on your baby. I do know how you feel but trust me it does pass!!!

Answer 7

Guy is a complete and utter loser.Men like him make me ashamed to be male.You want to do something,concentrate on your child.Get whatever documentation you can about his employment history,because your going to end up in court over his obligations guaranteed.Take care of yourself to help now,and take care of the info to assure your child has the financial support later.When he comes groveling back telling you he'll take care of you but they are going to take to much from his paycheck,don't listen.Put his name on the birth certificate and let the chips fall.You were good enough to impregnate.He should have been better prepared for the consequences for not taking precautions.Man up loser.

Answer 8

first of all,i will suggest,call your boyfriend and ask him why he left like this when you need him very much.and he is the father of your baby also.he has some responsibilities.dont do something wrong with your baby.if you are reckless and not having food,ur baby is suffering.wht he/she has done wrong with you?take care of yourself first of all.by the way,did ur boyfriend told you ever tht he didnt want any child right now?relax first and have food and take care of your health.and then contact him n talk to him firmly.dont sit back and cry.that will make you down physically and mentally,nothing else.

Answer 9

Well you have to think of the baby first now. I know it's hard to do when your emotions are all over the place. If you don't eat sleep and are stressing it could cause a miscarriage . Good luck to you.

Answer 10

First of all.....EAT!!! You have a child inside of you that soley depends on your decisions. I've never been in your position so I can't say I know how you feel...but try and focus on you and the baby...your baby needs you, your baby loves you. You love your baby, right? He's just one man....there are many, many more who roam this Earth. Maybe he needs some time....I don't know, but while he's not there just try and concentrate on yourself and the life growing inside of you....Being so emotional can be harmful to your baby if you're constantly stressed out...it can lead to miscarriage. Please please please take care of yourself....the one thing you can't change is that you have a child within you so now your attention needs to be focused on delivering a healthy baby...you can always try and work on things later with him. Don't allow his leaving to ruin you! Good luck..