how should i tell my mom that i think I'm pregnant please help?

Answer 1

YOU NEED TO DEFINITELY FIND OUT IF YOU'RE PREGNANT BEFORE TELLING HER!

Make 100% sure first!

Answer 2

First are you certain that you are indeed pregnant? If so you will need care if u decide to keep the baby or not . How old are you? That doesnt matter too much right now. You are desparatly in need of support to help you make a decision. Prenatle care right now is extreamly important. As well as money when the baby comes.Classes are also important to teach you to properly care for an infant. everyone has all kinds of ideas on how to raise healthy children. Its best you get the information from professionals. Mom will be upset when she learns the news. She loves you and wants whats best for you you alone can make a deciusion with support. Tell her the news and that you are sorry if she is upset but you need support.You and you alone must make a decision nobody can make that decision for you.Just know that many people love you and are ready to offer support . Keep to your studies thats very important.Thats your back up plan incase your money dwindles.Blessings to you in what ever decision you make. Trust your judgement and listen to your gut feeling it is rarely wrong Love to you.

Answer 3

First of all, be 100% percent sure that you ARE pregnant. That is the first thing you have to do... The second thing you need to do is tell your mom, which is what you are asking. Their are 2 ways you can do this, 1st- Write her a note and then leave it on the table before you leave for school. Then she will read it while you are at school and have soaked it all in and clambed down and is ready to talk with you when you get home. 2nd- The second way you could tell her is just a face to face mother to daughter sit down. Sit down with your mom and tell her. She may scream and get furious and rage, but dont you. Just keep calm. You could start the coversation like this...
you- "Mom, we need to talk"
mom- "ok honey" or "what about"
you- "mom, im pregnant"
mom- (will probably freak out and scream "what")
you- "im sorry mom (or whatever you wanna say). now, i need to figure out what im going to do so can you calm down and can we please talk about this..."
So now you talked to your mom about this and the next step you need to take is figureing out WHAT you want to do with the baby. Here are the options:
1. Abortion- Removeing the baby
2. Adoption- Have the baby then give it away to Social Services
3. Keep- you keep and raise the child which i suggest you DO NOT do. you are too you and trust me, if you kept the baby now, it would ruin you and the boys life.
*The best bet you should do is just get an abortion. You may feel sad for a week and wish you had the baby, but in the end you will KNOW your making the right decision. Go have fun and be a KID.

Answer 4

Check that you're 100% pregnant or else it would be a stress for you and your mom.
If your test turned out to be positive, then I suggest you and your mom should sit and discuss.Find the right moment, when she's not too tired or in a bad mood.But don't let it too long though,or else it'll get worse.
She might be screaming,yelling and all fumed up.But this is part of her first reaction.At this moment,don't yell back or else the situation gets worse and she won't understand how you feel.She might then ask you questions,and she has the right to know.The conversation might end long because this might be a breaking news for her.After several days,you and your mom should discuss answers to this problem-whether you want to keep tha baby,abort it or give it for adoption.
If you want to keep it,you've got to keep up with your studies as this will be a back-up for you and your child's life in the future.Giving it for adoption will hurt as much as letting the baby for abortion.Your mom might not approve of it,but after all,you're her daughter,at some point I'm sure your mom would like to see you as she was when she had you.

Answer 5

Go to the health department and have a test done or take a home test and make sure. If you are pregnant you need to tell her right away so you can get to a doctor for a check up. If it is negative you need to sit down with your mother and have a talk about birth control so you don't have to have the first conversation until you are ready. She will probably be mad at first but you are her child and she will want whats best for you. It will be fine either way, things will work out. Good Luck and don't put it off any longer.

Answer 6

im gonna be completely honest with you even if its not what u want to hear.first..find out for sure, second...having a baby at your age is such a really really really really bad idea...take it from someone who knows.and youve wanted one since u were 13?are u crazy?is it because u didnt get enough love as a child or something?u will NEVER be able to financially support this child and you will most likely break up with this guy in the next few years. a baby puts soooo much pressure on a couple who have been married and are financially secure let alone someone of your age and situation.im not saying to have an abortion..thats your choice and u shouldnt let anyone judge u for doing that.But try to look at your life in 5 years from now.Sad to say but u will be a single mother with no money and your child is the only one who will suffer.sorry if this sounded harsh but its true.you're in for a hard life.

Answer 7

Yes, you need to tell her whether you are pregnant or not. You obviously are taking no precautions or your precautions are not effective. You WILL get pregnant if you continue to have sex and do not have any form of birth control.

You need to know that birth control is NOT SAFE SEX. There is still a chance of pregnancy albeit slim no matter what you use. In general, it is stupid to have sex when you are not ready for a baby because at your age, you will forget or the boy will not have a condum and you'll still have sex, etc. YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE AND ARE GOING TO GET BURNT! I don't know why you girls (AND guys) don't get this.

Answer 8

its not gonna be easy I had to tell my mom at 15 i was pregant
but she was supportive.If you want to keep this baby you should
i rasied my daughter alone it was hard but youll be okay.i couldnt think of my life without her.And the day your baby is born your family will love that child too and if they were upset they wont be anymore.good luck

Answer 9

either be straight forward or do what i did. give her hints. like say oh my back hurts. my breast are sore, my stomach hurts really bad. i think I'm really bloated. eventually she will say. when the last time you had your period. are you pregnant? if she doesn't catch on just tell her.

Answer 10

first find out if ur pregnant than say mommy congrats your going to be a grandma