I've known a guy for most my life, and 5 years ago i had a major crush on him. I kno we'll never get to be together but i have no idea why i like him...he's attractive i confess, but other then that i dont know why i like him. i want to get over him but its too hard! everytime i see him, i have a crush on him all over again!
2006-09-14 01:59:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hehe yea that happens sometimes. I really like this girl alot but she's married now. She use to flirt with me and one time she even said she was mad at her hubby and was thinking about coming to my house to stay with me. Boy I wish she had. I think about her every day. My heart patters, etc. I even think about her when I'm... well, you know. I never get bored with thinking about her. Doesn't it suck??
2006-09-14 02:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Spirit-X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this is called "infatuation". You have known this guy for five years and you have never been together. That right there should tell you that he does not even feel the same way about you as you do him. So why keep on with this dream about something you will never have unless it is a "one nighter". And hopefully you do not even want to be viewed as one of those he has a notch on his bed for the number of women he has been with. People for whatever reason have these infatuations, but what you must ask yourself? Why am I wasting all this time over something that is not even meant to be. Go on with life, treat him as a general friend, and that is all and you should be ok. The best way to get out of this "infatuation" is to find someone who truly cares as much for you as you do him. Then life will be special and it will be really good. Right now you are looking at a one way street, you really like him, but he does not like you. That should tell you to move on with your life.
2006-09-14 09:17:06 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it girl friend. Sounds like we have similar problems. Yeah, I like this guy very very much and I think hes sexy hot, charming and bright and yet I know I can never have him. I guess if anything, I try to at least look at the fact that at least we are friends and I'd rather be his friend then have nothing with him. You just have to tell yourself you can have someone else who will love you and respect you and you dont need him. Once you truly find that one person this guys memory will fade out. Right now, hes the only one in the picture for you. It will change, just give it time.
2006-09-14 09:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Uncertainty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can wait and debate until you're in old age. You can take the direct approach and ask him out and work with the consequences. Or you can take a deep breath, decide to live in the present and look at the wider world. So many crushes yet to come.
2006-09-14 09:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by D M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is in a junior high or high school setting, it's going to be difficult because you can't get away from the source. If this is past high school, the best thing to do is find some activities to keep you busy and distracted.
2006-09-14 09:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by Link of Hyrule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is easier than u think...it might sound kina dumb but try it and see what it does for u....sit down with him and talk about it....confess to him...don't say u want anything just tell him u think he should know and that if u guys talk about it it will help u get over it....cause it will.
2006-09-14 09:07:58 · answer #6 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried counselling??? It might be worth a try. You might have had a relationship in a previous life. Good Luck. Try the counselling.
2006-09-14 09:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u alr know the problem....just don't look at him...
2006-09-14 09:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shining StaR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋