This is crazy, ok my friend's are fightin.
one says the otehr hates them, which isn't true and now they want to fight and involve me. I hate school life!
2006-09-14 01:33:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
ah, the problems of youth.
i have a house thats in the early stages of forclosure, a car thats
out for repo, the banking commision is auditing me at my job.
and im currently fighting with my boyfriend. THERE. did I just
put everything in perspective? i think i just did. I'd give my
left overie to be 15 again....and btw, im going to assume you think
that im some kind of dinosaur. nope im only 25. there. all you boys and girls that can't wait to grow up? why? look whats
ahead.
2006-09-14 09:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it. Tell them you like them both and you aren't taking sides and to leave you out of it. It's hard to get people to leave you out of something, but be firm. Tell each friend they can talk to you about anything except their argument. Hopefully, they'll make up sooner or later. I had this problem with a couple of friends, only we were out of high school and it was something serious. I didn't want to be in the middle of it. I did disagree with one of them, but did my best to remain neutral. The one I disagreed with (who was definitely wrong) just assumed I'd take the side of the other one and quit coming around. So, I lost one of them anyway, in spite of my efforts. That was her decision though, I didn't make it. I think it was better that way.
2006-09-14 08:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't involve yourself in the fight. you'll be stuck in the middle or you'll lose both as friends.all teenagers go through this. it's a part of becoming an adult. let both know that your not getting involved and why. if they get mad at you for NOT taking sides ,then they 're not very good friends at all.
2006-09-14 09:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by bama g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just let them BOTH know to totally leave you out of their petty little fighhts! Im with you- I hate petty little things getting to be a major thing with people! They need to fix the problem with each other- and Im sure they will- just dont let them bring you into it!
2006-09-14 15:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont choose sides if you want to keep both of them as friends, simply ask them not to involve you and that you think its silly that theyre bickering.
2006-09-14 08:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So leave school and find some new friends :) isnt it funny that guys never have these kinds of questions?
2006-09-14 08:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by brazilian76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to get a life and grow up.
2006-09-14 09:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved. it is the worst thing you could ever do for your friendship. just let them sort it out themselves.
2006-09-14 09:26:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sirena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to leave you out of it. tell them "my name is benit and i ain't in it" both of you are my friends and i don't want to get involve.
2006-09-14 10:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by stressed&depressed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what happens in high school.
2006-09-14 08:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by MommyBekah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋