"I love my school's sir and we r going to excursion 4m school and this sir is also going with us now the problem is he don't know my feelings ,We had a good relation,He comes to my house and we r nice friend,I love him from 6 years.Now shall i Propose him? plz answer and this is not a just crush i trully love him.
2006-09-14 01:00:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he is unmarried
2006-09-14 01:12:40 · update #1
If you truly love someone, then you will not do anything to harm them, even if that causes you pain.
If you propose to him, then he could get into big trouble. He could lose his job if he loves a student. He would be publicly shamed. So your only choice is to keep silent, if you truly love him.
2006-09-14 01:12:32 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Anyway this is the way of life , one day we all have to settled with some one . But that will not be the right place to propose him where you have your entire school observing each other, you must spend good time very near to him in a very dignified manner with lots of affection and caring to strengthen your point to create more feeling towards you .
After reaching back , ask him to take you out for dinner or high tea , and now is the time you may go for your step . Good luck .
2006-09-14 01:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your sir then there has to be a possibility of huge age gap.
Age gap more than 3-4 yrs might create a problem later on.Otherwise, you can go ahead and propose him as he is a teacher he has to be very understanding.Hopefully rest of the answer would be given to you by your sir.
2006-09-14 01:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by simplyazhar_shk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Kareena,
I've been through your other posts in this site and this is what i gather: -
1. You are in love with your college sir.
2. He is 13yrs elder to you.
3. You have not told him that you "love" him.
So, this is what i think you should do:
1. Tell your feelings to a girl friend of yours who is also in your class (ie. she has the same teacher)
2. If you tell him that you "love him" you will spoil whatever good relations you have with him, so wait now.
When you've discussed about your sir, with your friend, tell me what you've concluded, we will take it from there.
But, dont dont spoil everything by blurbing some stupid thing.
2006-09-14 02:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by Explore_Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the sound of it, it appears you are too young to contemplate marriage. Your teacher could be several years older to you. He may seem an authoritative figure today, that may be appealing to you. In your life now, the priorities are a solid foundation in education, and your ability to sustain yourself financially as an adult. At a suitable age, you could think of chosing a partner for life. I feel you may have to make a tough decision of not allowing this to grow into something bigger now and messing up both your and your teacher's lives.
2006-09-14 01:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it relatively is from The Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) final Sermon : All mankind is from Adam and Eve, an Arab has no superiority over a non-Arab nor a non-Arab has any superiority over an Arab; additionally a white has no superiority over black nor a black has any superiority over white different than via piety and robust action. learn that each and each Muslim is a brother to each Muslim and that the Muslims signify one brotherhood. no longer something would be valid to a Muslim which belongs to a fellow Muslim till it substitute into given freely and willingly. do no longer, subsequently, do injustice to yourselves.
2016-09-30 22:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by regula 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him and be ready for all hell. Because that's what will happen.
EXPLANATION: If he says yes to you, he will immediately lose his job. (Because you a minor in his charge.) Even if he just touches your hand "inappropriately," that is grounds for dismissal. And if he says no to you (which he should if he has more than an ant's brain), you will be miserable because (a) he said no; and (b) you will always know that he remembers what you said. That's hell. Think it over.
PS: And this IS a crush, say what you will.
2006-09-14 01:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get though your schooling first if you tell him about it it may ruin the relationship that you already have with him plus it will put him in a very bad position with the school if your feelings are real and true they will survive finishing school and be better afterwards plus then he can return them if he is so inclinded after you graduate
2006-09-14 01:06:01 · answer #8 · answered by prissymiss1968 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Does he feel the same way? You have to be in another country cuz no one says "my school's sir" in the US. And you don't propose to someone who doesn't know your feelings. He's likely to avoid you forever
2006-09-14 01:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont actaually know but the thing that dissappoints me is how can u propose to aman? the thing is you can drop for him strong hints as alady so that he can know you have fallen in love with him long time ago!
2006-09-14 01:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋