2006-09-14 00:06:38 · 20 answers · asked by magiclady2007 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get rid of him...either kick him out or leave yourself...children remember everything and unless you care about your other half more than your kids you should sort it...they will remember and it will stay with them always plus which they will see you as weak and either will have little respect for you or they will in turn be weak and allow this kind of crap! Good luck and get all the support you can you'll need it ....
2006-09-14 04:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with your other half, sit down with a cup of coffee and tell them what you don't approve of how you are treating your kids. give that person a chance to respond to what you said, and don't do it nasty or mean but be firm and there is always two sides to every story, if you seen it yourself,say so. if that person does not want to talk about it or want to change then there is the door.
more fish in the sea that loves kids.
2006-09-14 00:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by badboy1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children are practically defensless and are relying on you for protection. Depending on what you mean by NASTY, if you are in an abusive situation, don't be selfish...protect your children and get out or have him removed. You have to elaborate more for the answers you are seeking
2006-09-14 00:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the ****,your children should always come first no matter wot.don't let him treat your children horrible this is so wrong off him if its that bad kick him out no child dissevered to be treated this way after all the are only children and they need a adult to show them the way in too the big world he needs to get a life and grow up.....
2006-09-14 00:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by skye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him you dont need him and your children need to grow up in a loving enviroment if he is nasty to them then thats not loving. how old are your children? icoz if there older you could find that they could turn on you for not protecting them and you could loose them is it worth that? im sure your children are way more important.
2006-09-14 00:32:30 · answer #5 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these children would be his step children ? yes, it happens all the time . he is jealous of their relationship with you .do you have a child with him too? if so this is another reason why he is nasty to your children , because they are not his biological children . i would have a long talk with him about his behaviour and if nothing is settled i would be moving out.with my children
2006-09-14 00:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by clrdanlob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u want to ask this question. The answer is so obvious - get rid of him. your children come first!!
Suppose the first option would be to talk to him and tell him how you feel and take it from there.
2006-09-14 00:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Susie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should go as when he first met you he knew you had children if he didnt want to take them on he should have walked not stayed then started on them, it will affect them long term if he stays, they will always be there they are your kids but he can walk any time, be strong and good to the kids
2006-09-14 00:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by flowerpower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is not pulling his weight then get rid and get half. If he is hurting your children in anyway no matter how he is to you it is child abuse and should be reported. This also includes mental or physical torment
2006-09-14 00:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by alismudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not clear enough. But I do suggest that you would keep him from your children. Children are innocent, they don't have to suffer from him.
2006-09-14 00:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋