I have a friend who does very little, but still believes he is responsible for everything. allthough hes not, how do i make him understand that what he does, doesnt really impress me.
2006-09-13 23:57:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Once in a while say: Here we go again.
Once in a while say: I've heard all this before
Once in a while: Give a big pretend yawn
Do it often enough, he'll get the message
2006-09-14 00:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i really think u shld tell him a calm manner and in a civilised way that he is claiming crdits for smth he didnt do and so if he reacts like shout back at you just try to calm him down or say smth like ' its really true and if u dont believe me ask some other friend '
i have a friend like this too.. i sort of tell him that he's not doing anything and just laugh it off. Maybe ur fren's abit too much and dont work with him in your future projects :D
Or u could be mean and tell him all the hatred u have for him and let him know u dun like his attitude, but this is last resort ; only if ur fren really sucks
2006-09-14 00:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in this situation u shld change urself a lil bit
it will be very diff for tht perso n tobelieve this
so u have to make him understand slowly
it will take time
u tell me whenever he's wrong
and after a month or two he'll change for sure
u have to cooperate with him
and if u r tolerating him then he isnt ur frnds
as frnds r treated nicely not tolerated
sry but tht's the truth
bye
All The Best!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 00:29:43 · answer #3 · answered by Adi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just smile and nod a lot. Makes you look good. Develops tolerance of idiocy. It's a good skill to have. He's not fooling anybody, right?
2006-09-14 00:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid him like the plague he is!
He's too stuck on himself to listen to reason, so just let him live in his little world of delusion.
You have better things to do with your life than let this blowhard waste your time.
2006-09-14 00:04:12 · answer #5 · answered by thatwench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore whenever person starts boastin by looking some where else
2006-09-14 00:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just the type & actually,they have a very low self-esteem so,take him off your list of friends 'cause they ain't nothin' you can do for them.
2006-09-14 00:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just ignore their ranting,because sooner, or later, their facade will crumble in front of them, and they will be exposed for the frauds that they are.
2006-09-14 00:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get over himself and stop thinking he's all that and a bag of chips.LOL. Tell him he's making a fool of himself. Be honest, tell him what you think.
2006-09-14 00:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the same thing he does... behave in the same way... this wa he'll start realizing his own doings.. this may take some time but eventually it will work..
2006-09-14 00:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by so sick of love songs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋