2 months ago i courted someone and she answered that she is already comfortable as friends that she doesnt want to be more than that. And i didnt feel that in the going days so 2 days ago i ask her why shes not comfortable and she answered i dont know so what i did is i wrote aletter saying if we could be friends with the comfortable thingy. So i ask her and she said ok. Heres now the problem someone is courting her and that guy has a chance on her. It really hurts,bugs and make me jealous when i see them. What should i do?
2006-09-13 23:47:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how hard it must be.. I'm in the same fix. I want my ex back.. darn.. I don't even see him as my ex, I still love him. I don't know how to move on.. this answer is not really helping you, is it? I guess sooner or later we both need to learn to let go... I just really hope that one day my boyfriend realizes how much I care about him...
2006-09-14 01:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by RedHead 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm 37, and the two best relationships in my life were with two guys who I was able to call my best friends. I am a firm believer in "if the person you are romantically involved with isn't your best friend, it won't work". I think that's the secret for staying together.
Don't act jealous, just be her friend! This guy will probably hurt her and it will be your shoulder she'll cry on. (OR BE REAL EVIL, and find some hot girl to mess around with him and have her find out, lol.)
2006-09-14 00:01:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A freind of mine really fancied a girl and she wasn't interested. He hounded her for nearly a year and in the end they got together. They've been together for 7 years now.
My advice is to leave her alone if she is seeing someone else but if she becomes single again, let her know that you're still into her. Don't do the letter thing again though, it's just not cool.
2006-09-13 23:54:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want something more than what she wants.
now she has found someone else, it is going to hurt as you know that you wish it was you with her not someone else.
still be friends however just don't hang out to much with her it will be like rubbing salt into a wound.
wish her good luck and leave it at that
don't keep hurting your self it will drive a wedge between you.
you will get more jealous and angry
2006-09-13 23:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by tracey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be hurt less in the long run if you make friends with other girls.
You cannot force this girl to feel a romantic interest in you if she does not. Nothing you can do will change that.
Yes, I know it hurts, and I am sorry, but move on!
2006-09-13 23:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by zen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sucker!
She was never interested in you at all in the first place, you should of seen it from the start. Since she always avoided giving you a straight answer, was enough clues. Yet like a typical loser, you kept on bugging her.
Its time to move on buddy, before you become another one of the wannabes with no life of his own to live.
2006-09-14 00:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. You have to find another girl. She is just not attracted or interested in you. Obviously, you are not comfortable as being just friends. Move on.
2006-09-13 23:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by just browsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to just be her friend and move on. i know it herts but she knows how you feel and is rubbing it in your face for some reason. find someone who is sensitive to how you feel because she doesnt seem to care. what will happen is shell see you with someone youll be treating her good and shell see what a big oppertunity she missed. and you will have moved on.
2006-09-13 23:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by starfox 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
better be as a friend only , i can understand it is natural for you to feel jealous but the main point is she is interested in you only as a freind.she dont have any loving feelings towards you.so better be a good friend otherwise you will loose her friendship also..
2006-09-14 00:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by daisy d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't loose your time, with her. It will hurt for a while, and it will pass. Find s.o. that is responding to your feelings, and have a good time both of you.
Good-luck!
2006-09-13 23:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋