I have been off the pill for over a year. My periods are always irregular and I have numerous ultrasound scans to check for cysts and any other problems. There were some small polips found but nothing major according to my doctor. I have also now been refered to the hospital to be tested for endomitriosis. I have had unprotected sex in the past (with a partner who was STi checked) for 6 months and have never fallen pregnant! My new partner has had a vasectomy so my concern is when he gets a reversal - will I even be able to conceive?!?!? Please help - any advice is welcome. :)
2006-09-13 23:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Don't worry right away- when you've been on the pill it can literally take up to about 3 years for the effects to wear off and for your bodies hormones to resume a normal balance.
Also some people think its quite easy to conceive but to be fair I believe with people like you and me it will take a while.
I had a friend who just wanted a baby- she tried and tried and it really stressed her out. Her partner suggested they go away for a break and she forgot about it and on holiday she got pregnant!
You have to not stress about these things and in the long run if you find it hard to conceive there are loads of different options to help you out like IVF etc.
Good luck and dont stress.
2006-09-13 23:51:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be but with having irregular periods that can really mess up you cycle. You ovulation is not going to fall with in the normal 14 days after the start of you period. Most doctors will only start to check for infertility after you have been trying for at least a year. If your new partner get a reversal with the vasectomy it is not guaranteed to work. If you do have endomitriosis you fallopian tube may be blocked and the egg may not be able to be reached to be fertilized. If that is the case they can do surgery to open the tube. I would talk with your doctor about everything before you really start to worry.
2006-09-13 23:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by firefly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because some people are lucky / unlucky enough (depending on the circumstances) to fall pregnant the first time they have sex doesn't mean that its easy to get pregnant
It took me 7 months hard work to get pregnant. A reversal isn't always successful so whether you are infertile or not you may still not be able to conceive if it doesn't work.
Keep having fun trying and don't let it ruin your life, stress of trying to get pregnant too can also be a factor
2006-09-13 23:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you stop thinking about it and enjoy the love making that is when it will happen! It sounds like you are doing everything else right.
Reversal can be tricky but very possible for you to become pregnant. Maybe this new partner will have the right chemistry the last one didn't!
2006-09-13 23:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been checked yourself for fertility? There are tests and pills they can do to try to help you get pregant my stepmother had trouble conceving so they put her on pills and a few months after she got pregant with my little sister she didnt need them for her second child as far as I know. With some women It can take up to a year before they will get pregant..I know what your going through with the worry if it will ever happen. I have never had a regualr peroid .I have been with my bf for over 2 years now we have only used protection 2 times and I have not gotten pregant..I know it isnt him because he has three kids of his own. The best of luck to you in thying to concive a child.
2006-09-13 23:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took me over 7 years to get pregnant with my daughter. I had every test known to man and they allcame back negative. I was finally told that i probably wouldn't get pregnant without IVF. I decided to wait awhile before goig ahead with the IVf and then 3 months later i got pregnaant naturally. My advice would be dn't give up, keep trying. It can take a while and it usually happens when you least expect it or stop thinking about it!!
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2016-10-14 23:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the help of a fertility specialist there is good possibility. The specialist should help both of you, treat both of you. God Bless You.
2006-09-13 23:52:04 · answer #8 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up ok. my best friend took 2 years before she can conceive so it will happen just belive in god and keep praying ok ~god bless~
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2006-09-14 23:19:04 · answer #10 · answered by redface 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋