I am trying to become a person that I don't want to be, or can be say that I want to change. Mostly I am trying to impress people to get what I want. I force myself to become another person. I am really tired. I felt that all I have done doesn't get what I want.
2006-09-13 23:38:14 · 15 answers · asked by Vance 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't change who you are to impress someone. Why be someone you aren't to get someone to like you, they are then only likeing you under false pretences. how about you been who you are, and if they like you for you, great. If they don't then they don't deserve to be friends with you. And if you are tired of it, be who you really are. no point in killing yourself to be someone else.
2006-09-13 23:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal that u try to be someone that u r not..only a few people feel so...coz for a long time u've been having same routine in ur life..and then u felt it boring...so u changed..but that sudden change seem a litttle unacceptable to the mind...let me tell u ....
u can never achieve so many things as much as u can until u r urself...in other words...be yourself and not others,surely u'll find success...if u think that the change u had is not good...then imagine about what others will be thinking...
2006-09-14 06:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by me_who2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give a little more detail... what exactly are u trying to get? you might get it without trying to impress them, or it might not be worth the effort! Give an example of such a situation, then maybe we can help u find another way of getting what u want...
I quit impressing ppl a long time ago, i just realised it was a waste of energy, maybe thats what u need,,, be the best u can be.
2006-09-14 06:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why don't you stop?? If people cannot accept you for who you are and what you stand for, then you don't need them, darlin'. Really, you shouldn't have to be someone you aren't in order to impress anyone. You should learn to be secure with yourself and meet other people that will love you for who you are. Quit trying to impress these losers!
2006-09-14 06:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying to be someone your not NEVER works!!!! Try evaluating yourself...all your positive features,physical, emotional,moral,etc. and work on enhancing them to their fullest potential. I have also taught my children as they grew up when making a decision in life, major or small......follow your head and heart, meaning when you're thinking about the problem before you... if your head and heart agree on the decision to be made that's the right choice, if your head and heart are disagreeing with each other then it's the wrong choice. When you focus on who you really are you flourish and enhance others lives as well as your own!!!!
2006-09-14 07:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to be someone else to get the things that you want then i would have a real good look at the things you are trying to get, are they really worth it. be yourself my friend, if being you is'nt good enough for these people you are trying to impress, they are not worth the effort, and who died and made them god anyway, wake up tomorrow and become yourself.
2006-09-14 06:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be true to yourself, at least you will be respected by yourself first and others for not being manipulated. the only person you have to impress is yourself. you may get want you want in the short term, but its dishonestly acquired and damaging to yout self respect
2006-09-14 06:57:55 · answer #7 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change to impress, and to get what you want. this type of question reminds me of someone I knew....can't message you...does your name start with an "R"??? I know of someone with the last name Vance. Well if not good luck anyway. God bless!
2006-09-14 07:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Country 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid thinking of what other people will tell about you,,,
doing so will not show up the real you,,
puting your self at the criteria of other will just make you no differnce to a puppet,
you have y our own mind to decide for oyur self ,, only you knows what can make you happy,, not other person,,
your the master of your self,,
criticisms are good as long as it doesnt manipulate you,,
good luck!!!
2006-09-14 06:44:24 · answer #9 · answered by mhykz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man the truth is you'll never be able to please everybody and trying to be 'mr cameleon' to achieve this is not wise. Just be yourself you'll see that someone will always love you for who you are. Come on take charge of your situation...choose FREEDOM!
2006-09-14 06:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by blacksugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋