My partner is never interested in both. It's my feeling that foreplay is a good aphrodasic & being in each other's arms gives afeeling of being loved. Because of this I'm feeling rejected.
2006-09-13 23:25:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Definitely not!
Love is:
1. Respect for each other's views and values
2. Care and concern for each other
3. Accepting each other's weaknesses
4. Constant communication and consulting with each other on decisions that affect each other directly or indirectly.
5. Prepared to give up what one loves for the sake of the partner
Working towards the sexual satisfaction of the partner is just one of the many actions to show love.
2006-09-14 00:23:15 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is good at one or the other then why try to complicate the issue by adding a since of pressure to perform both? My belief is that there it a true separation between love and sex, love is the touching, holding, even communicating as you enjoy each other, sex is an act of passion done for the pure physical enjoyment of the moment, in the middle of an orgasm are you thinking "OH! how I love you so!", I doubt it! Love your partner for who they are, not for who you want them to be.
2006-09-13 23:37:21 · answer #2 · answered by pdlfstr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you should find another partner then. If you cannot get what you need from someone in this most intimate setting, then you can pretty much count on the fact that they won't really be there for you in others.
2006-09-13 23:29:05 · answer #3 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well that is normal for us woman, men are not the kiss,mushy type.e on the other hand love to be cuddly and loved on. don't worry about it unless he was like that at first.if he was all over you at first then ask him about it. my husband always tells me that sex doesn't make him love me it is just me.
2006-09-13 23:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Consult together a doctor or sex educationist regarding this or talk freely about your wishes.
2006-09-13 23:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right. It builds in confidence with each other
2006-09-14 00:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by lkslalit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to communicate with your partner
2006-09-13 23:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes very much
2006-09-13 23:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by gnffriend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is and it has to be. Try talking to her and get her into it gently.
2006-09-13 23:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not come to me...besidesd this, forget him/her.. find someone else. 2 is better than one
2006-09-14 22:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋